“I can’t orgasm – and it’s not your fault”
Author’s Disclaimer to head off certain criticism at the pass: I am not a doctor. This post was not written by a doctor. What is true for me, my husband and some others is...
Category: Thoughts & Opinions
Surprised and disappointed
I hesitated in posting this, but then thought about it and decided I will. It’s my blog – these are just my thoughts and my opinions here, I’m not doing investigative journalism. I’m hoping...
But the Porn Star told me to!
Porn stars get paid to have sex. We all (should) know this. Anything they do that you see, they are most likely getting paid for it. Which is fine. I have no issue with...
The Value of the Anonymous Blogger
In the last few weeks I personally have been feeling like many readers (and “out” bloggers, and even some other not-out-yet-pompous bloggers) potentially feel like anonymous sex bloggers lack merit, or value, or validity....
Why Sex Education is So Important
At 15, I was still scared of boys, sort of. Sure I’d “date” them, and yeah I’d make out with them, but everything else? Terrified. It was because I knew next to nothing about...
We should all start our own company
Don’t you think that sex toy reviewers could create, quite possibly, the world’s best sex toys? This thought came to me the other day when lamenting both “premium” vibrators and how they still lack...
Blogger Education?
Due to a number of factors, the end of last week I decided to close down the Co-op. I haven’t deleted it, just “disabled” it. The fact that no one noticed/spoke up reinforced the...
National Coming Out Day
Today (tomorrow as I write this in the throes of more sleeplessness on Sunday, actually) is National Coming Out Day. A day where some really brave and true individuals all over the country are...
Jaded
You’ve got your mama’s style but you’re yesterday’s child to me So Jaded You think that’s where it’s at but is that where it’s supposed to be? You’re gettin’ it all over me Jaded...
Yes, Jelly Sex Toys can be Dangerous
Author’s Note: Yes this is an older post, but I update it with new information when I can. The information contained here is only the start and if you are curious, if you have...
Thoughts on Blogging
It’s late (for me), I had a terrible shitty night of sleep (or lack of) the last two nights, and just feel like rambling. How sad is it that some bloggers feel they need...
My Name Is….(huh?)
Hi! My name is.. (what?) My name is.. (who?) My name is.. [scratches] Slim Shady Lilly Hi! My name is.. (huh?) My name is.. (what?) My name is.. [scratches] Slim Shady Lilly Ahem.. excuse...
National Sexual Freedom Day
A lot of people in this country live in their own bubble and don’t even know or care about sexual freedom – not to be down-putting but they are usually very religious, heterosexual and...
This time, I’m the one asking questions
Ladies: My question is in regards to cunnilingus. Do you enjoy when the giver sucks on your labia, pulling them outward with their lips or perhaps even teeth? Men: Have you ever used either...
Is it really “Strange” Sex?
A lot of you have heard of, read about or even seen the TLC mini-series called “Strange Sex”. I’ve come across a number of articles about this show in the sex-blogger/sex-positive community, from small...
