I’ve found a new secret to my G-spot
Or rather….my husband has. For the first decade of our sex life his penis alone managed to hit my g-spot over and over during sex to varying degrees of bliss. In more recent years...
Category: Thoughts & Opinions
A Phthalates Experiment (or: I touched a slimy dildo on purpose)
Yesterday I purposely opened up a box of phthalates. Inspired by a video from Jennifer Pritchett, owner of The Smitten Kitten, I opened up a box that had been languishing in my 2nd-floor storage...
Decompressing and Deconstructing: MomentumCon 2012 Aftermath
I mean “aftermath” in the best possible way, but yet my brain is a freaking mess. “Overstimulated” is the best way to describe my current state. I go from leading a fairly boring life...
The Fake Orgasm: You think you know, but you have no idea
Women fake orgasms. Not all women or not all the time. It is slowly becoming less prevalent but it still happens. Just a few generations ago women were not taught much (if at all)...
There’s always one…
There will always be people who don’t like you or something you’re doing. After all, you can’t please everyone all the time. And because I am me – emotional, headstrong, attached, fucked up –...
Can a new and better bed be a boost to your sex life?
In recent years I feel like I’m part of that little fairy tale called The Princess and the Pea. I chalk it up to my messed up back and fibromyalgia and myofacial pain syndrome,...
An Open Letter to the Sex Toy Industry
As I sit here in yesterday’s clothes and a forehead wrinkle that would make most upper class women instinctively reach out to rub it smooth and tell me the wonders of Botox, darling, I’m...
Ever wondered how to use a Stand-To-Pee device? Ask Miss Maggie Mayhem!
There’s a couple of Stand-to-Pee devices out there for vulva-bodied people. The most visible ones are those being sold by sex toy retailers who recognize that it’s not just something to help you take...
From the Sex Toy Noob Files: Vibrating Cock Rings….wtf
Recently I asked you all what you wished you would have known before you bought your first sex toys. One of the biggest things I’d touched on was that back when we first started...
Irony Is….
….when a site scrapes your content, and the first thing they scrape…is a post about ANOTHER site illegally scraping / copyright violation. *blinks* It was so meta, AAG and I couldn’t even comprehend it...
Banned and Blacklisted
Those who follow me on Twitter (and on G+) figured out this morning that I’ve finally been banned from Google+. My profile has been removed. The other Google products that I currently use affiliated...
Scandal Shack Dot Com – Thievery and Copyright Violation!
A lot of my fellow bloggers are having their content scraped and posted on scandal shack dot com – They’re flat-out stealing; they put your words (or photos!) onto their ugly ass ad-laden website...
Ask Lilly – Open and Polyamorous: Why be married at all?
Recently on OkCupid a very unlikely candidate messaged me and he eventually started questioning me on topics surrounding open marriage; apparently I was the first he’d run into on OKC who admitted to being...
Wrapping up the Gender Celebration Carnival
I’m thrilled at the comments I received on my contribution to this Carnival, all about what terms and labels are correct and how to be as “neutral” as possible in order to not offend...
Dating Pool: OkCupid and their Questions
I wouldn’t say I’m using Okcupid for dates, per se, right now. I’m just not in a date-like frame of mind anymore it seems. But I AM actively using it to find like-minded friends,...
