Monthly Archive: January 2010

Ask Lilly: Introducing a Couple to Sex Toys

Ask Lilly: Introducing a Couple to Sex Toys

I’d say about once a week I am asked by my readers to recommend sex toys. Men, women, couples…..specific queries or newbie general “I just want a sex toy” questions, I get them all....

Lost and Found

Lost and Found

I plan to write more on this, for this blog, but for now this is just a quick meta-post. The post before this one detailed how I finally care enough about me, for myself,...

Regaining My Femme

Regaining My Femme

This originally appeared over at Edencafe.com, but I’m re-posting it here in hopes of some helpful comments and giving my thoughts more exposure. As a little kid I can remember being quite the tomboy....

Ultimate Massager Pocket Rocket Review

Ultimate Massager Pocket Rocket Review

I’m pretty fond of my clit vibrators and I harbor a special fondness for my old red pocket rocket. It was the first clit vibe that I bought and shockingly it ended up being...

Rant: FYP (For Your Pleasure) Sex Toy Parties

Rant: FYP (For Your Pleasure) Sex Toy Parties

I know that at these FYP sex toy parties, the hostess doesn’t have products to let people take home right then and there so they DO have to pay the tax and shipping. They’re bullied and pressured into buying something before they can have time to go look for a better deal elsewhere or a more pleasing color. I’d be willing to bet my left tit that the hostesses of these parties NEVER talk about phthalates and using condoms on toys.

Neighbor Noises

Neighbor Noises

Is my neighbor kinky or just weird? As is wont to happen when living in an apartment complex, you hear things. Weird things. Annoying things. I’m thankful that most of the annoying things happen...

Review: Doc Johnson Harmony Bullet Vibrator

Review: Doc Johnson Harmony Bullet Vibrator

Another sex toy, another quest. This time I continue on my quest to find a bullet vibrator that offers the intensity and vibration frequency that is ideal for me, while being good quality so...

The G-Ki Vibrator On Sale Now

The G-Ki Vibrator On Sale Now

The cool new g-spot / dual stimulation bendable vibrator that I reviewed recently, the G-Ki by Je Joue, is now on sale at EdenFantasys.com. It’s priced at $98.99 currently – since it’s over $80...

The Perfect Fat

The Perfect Fat

It seems as though most of my readers respond better to a tiny, provocative 3-line post with a half-nekkid photo, than my rambling words lately. It seems like I can’t make a move to...

Wet Skin

Wet Skin

What is it about wet skin (or wet clothes even) that is so universally sexy and sensual? Not just water wet but oil wet or lube wet or ohhhh soapy wet! Why do you...

Vegas, Baby!

Vegas, Baby!

So a month or so ago I told you guys about Twisted Monk doing another Rope Bondage class, this time in Vegas. Well, the reason it was Vegas is because Tess and Diva were...

Sex as a Panacea*

Sex as a Panacea*

So with my new, bionic arm I apparently took my pain-free status for granted, and over-used it. “Hey! I can pick up 2 containers of milk with one hand!” sort of over-use. Starting yesterday...

The Revolution Continues

The Revolution Continues

I mentioned recently some advice on What Not to Say to Sex Bloggers when you email them. So it’s only fair that I show you that not only do I get my share of...

What Not to Say

What Not to Say

I wouldn’t say that I get a lot of reader emails. Perhaps 2-3 most weeks, sometimes more –  sometimes less. Some are sweet and don’t expect anything in return, they just wanted to compliment...