Review: Je Joue MiMi Vibrator

Review: Je Joue MiMi Vibrator

Update: Despite the Je Joue Mimi winning the top spot in a sex toy round-up in Good Housekeeping UK, I feel that the new Je Joue Mimi Soft is a slightly better version. It...

Review: Vanity by Jopen – VR6

Review: Vanity by Jopen – VR6

The blandly named Vanity VR6 by Jopen has shattered two really big “never” statements for me: 1. I don’t like “rabbit”/dual stimulator vibrators 2. Internal vibrations never do a damn thing for me The...

The Parole Board has Spoken!

The Parole Board has Spoken!

The planets aligned, the decisions have been made and plans are starting to congeal. Wait, that made me think of jello. Or gravy. Bad word. Anyways. I decided on which is my last day...

Review: Doc Johnson Black Magic Bullet

Review: Doc Johnson Black Magic Bullet

This is possibly the easiest sex toy review I’ll ever write. Why? Because I’ve basically already reviewed this toy before. Not one to step too far out on a limb, Doc Johnson changed the...

MOMENTUM – Are you going? You should!

MOMENTUM – Are you going? You should!

I’m really looking forward to my upcoming long weekend in D.C. to attend MOMENTUM, a sexuality conference bringing together many types of talks and speakers and topics relating to sex, sex work, feminism, and...

Ethics in Blogging

Ethics in Blogging

There are a lot of ways that bloggers can be unethical. Mind you, ethics don’t always equal human kindness/respect for others. You can be a snarky, grumpy shit-stirrer but still be ethical. You can...

(not so) Great Expectations

(not so) Great Expectations

I haven’t blogged in a while, not entirely intentionally. I keep meaning to finish up the Erogenous Zones series, but this whole moving/trying to find a place to move to shit has ALL of...

Change is inevitable

Change is inevitable

In 3 months, a new life for me begins. In 3 months we’ll be moving a few states away. In 3 months I will no longer have to drag my ass every day into...

Erogenous Zones 5: Arms

Erogenous Zones 5: Arms

So I missed a week for a few reasons, and now we’re back on track. This week is Arms. For me, it’s mostly rough/kinky on this area, to the degree of pain that my...

Count the Kinks in Rihanna’s S&M Video

Count the Kinks in Rihanna’s S&M Video

Facebook alerted me this morning to watch Rihanna’s newest video for her song “S&M”. They’re not even TRYING to be coy about it, lol. I for one cannot wait to hear the backlash from...