Tagged: Navel-Gazing

On Being Bi-sexual and Dating Women

On Being Bi-sexual and Dating Women

I no longer consider myself “bicurious”, and I haven’t for a number of years. But some days I still feel that way, due to a lack of even one good Girl Date.

I’ve been with women sexually…..less than a half dozen, all encounters that happened through either planning to have sex or something similar. I’ve never actually *dated* a woman. Not for lack of trying!

Baggage

Baggage

I’ve been traveling a good bit lately. Washington State to see Coy Pink a month ago; NYC back in March; a couple of weekends doing computer work for a friend a few states away...

The Ghost of the Mysterious “J”

The Ghost of the Mysterious “J”

Every once in a while I chat/email with someone and the “click” is there immediately. I wish I could produce the formula that equates to this click, but I don’t really know. It was...

Fleshbot’s New Feature: Yay or Nay?

Fleshbot’s New Feature: Yay or Nay?

The other day I found that Fleshbot, previous home of the traffic-boosting Sex Blog Round-Up, is getting bloggers to agree to letting them re-post content. Specifically, YOU write a post and it’s published on...

Bra shopping fail

Bra shopping fail

Off I went last week to my local Lane Bryant Outlet store to replace one of the newer “really uplifting” bras I purchased last summer. After being pretty sure that the bra I picked...

When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L

When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L

There are two sides to me. The Lilly you see online and the L that most others see in reality (and how I feel in reality). Sometimes there is a bleeding of the edges...

Isn’t it Ironic

Isn’t it Ironic

You know how sometimes you don’t realize something as being true until it comes falling out of your mouth with no premeditated thought? Writing is like that, for me. It can be how I...

Lost and Found

Lost and Found

I plan to write more on this, for this blog, but for now this is just a quick meta-post. The post before this one detailed how I finally care enough about me, for myself,...

Regaining My Femme

Regaining My Femme

This originally appeared over at Edencafe.com, but I’m re-posting it here in hopes of some helpful comments and giving my thoughts more exposure. As a little kid I can remember being quite the tomboy....

The Perfect Fat

The Perfect Fat

It seems as though most of my readers respond better to a tiny, provocative 3-line post with a half-nekkid photo, than my rambling words lately. It seems like I can’t make a move to...

Ratty Old Shirt

Ratty Old Shirt

I have this hot pink T-shirt that I used to love, but it’s now an “at-home” only shirt. No longer can it be worn with my most comfortable summer skirt; no, a few someones...

IN THE YEAR 2009

IN THE YEAR 2009

I’m stealing this from Hubman who stole it from NY Diva IN THE YEAR TWO THOUSAND…(NINE) 1. What did you do that you’d never done before? A few exhibitionist/voyeuristic things that have been written...

Lilly is Impatient

Lilly is Impatient

This has only happened once before, and at least then it was lunchtime. By “this” I mean that I picked up a sex toy shipment from a carrier before work. Previously it was at...