About Lilly

 I am not your average girl. I swear like a sailor. I cook like a domestic goddess. I fuck like well…not a porn star, just someone who truly loves sex and pleasure. I love sexual exploration, kinks and fetish. I consider myself to be fully bi-sexual in that I am attracted to / date / have sex with both men and women. I could get more technical and label myself as pansexual/queer, those fit as well. I am was exploring exhibitionism through this blog and with this blog -> My sex life waxes and wanes, as is reflected in this blog. While I was, at one point, involved in a D/s long-distance thing it ended abruptly and I no longer blog about BDSM much. My interest in that area of sexuality exists still, but its too directly tied to him and so it is tucked away in a corner. And while I used to post more risque stories and tales and such, that aspect has taken a far left backseat for now and the foreseeable future. While I do occasionally participate in Wanton Wednesday, the photo posting isn’t what it used to be  – what I choose to reveal is simply that: what I choose to reveal. I don’t take personal requests for private pics, I don’t post videos, and I’m not using this blog as a dating service (not that I think I ever did). But since a few people need everything to be clearly spelled out, there you have it.

I am currently married with no children on the horizon for us (our cats are our kids), and the marriage is like….monogamy with benefits. Not poly, kinda open, and that whole aspect is not even fully explored yet.

My blog is a big mixed bag of erotic fiction, real life escapades, self-shot photos, sex toy reviews and advice. In the end though, it’s all still just “me”. The title of the blog, “This Could Be Dangerous…” is the thought I first had when I seriously considered starting a blog about exhibitionism (my own) and voyeurism (my own and others) and some of the shit I used to do at work regarding those two topics. To put all this out there in a public space? Dangerous, indeed. But I’d started the blog on the AOL of blogging platforms, Blogspot/Blogger. And the address of using the title of the blog wasn’t available. Four more incarnations weren’t available! I finally found a combo that worked by combining “dangerous” and “lilly” (my pseudonym) and it has led, quite inadvertently, to the internet moniker of “Dangerous Lilly”. The name Lilly is derived from an old character name (Lilliana) that I used in an MMORPG game. I was frequently called Lilli for short, but in the aspect of visual appeal I changed the ‘i’ to a ‘y’ for blogging. Since the flower, lily, is the more common spelling of the name I get a lot of people who incorrectly spell my name that way (despite Lilly being part of my domain name, lol).

So – it’s Lilly, 3 ‘L’s, a nickname for Lilliana. Now you know!

Site Navigation

At the very tippy-top of the page are my major post categories, and some have sub-categories. Below the site banner are my pages, and the Sex Toy pages especially are broken down into a lot of information.

My Other Projects

Toy Swap Network – This is a private, invite-only ning.com social site that Sinclair and I created, and I run now. This is basically for sex toy reviewers/bloggers who have a lot more sex toys than they know what to do with, and we swap (safely!) with each other. If you would like to know more about it, the mission statement is viewable on a public blog here.

e[lust] sex blog round up – This is my baby, my big project. Similar in concept to the original Sugasm, but with some changes to their rules and function. It works by submissions from the bloggers themselves; if you submit (and your post fits the guidelines) you’re in – but peers judge and vote on the Top 3 posts for each edition. I’m always looking for more help with it, and it’s open to any blogger who writes about sex, relationships, kink, and more. It is so much more than just erotica. Explore the site here.

Sex Blogger Co-Op – This is another private, invite-only place. This group is for somewhat-established sex/sexy bloggers to privately kvetch, share information, ask questions and generally get the inside scoop on how to be a better sex blogger. Check out this page talking about it over at e[lust].

Wanton Wednesday – Arising from the ashes of my discontent with “HNT”, I started Wanton Wednesday. I encourage more than just photos, and more than just half-naked. Pretty much….anything goes!

Unless otherwise noted, any pictures you see on here ARE of me, and copyright remains.

I can be reached many different ways – Formspring, Yahoo IM, Email, or comments – visit the Contact page for the links!

Also listed in the 2010 and 2011 versions of the Sexy Bloggers list

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