So, New York, what do you have to offer me?

So, New York, what do you have to offer me?

The time is beginning to approach once more…… The annual NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar party is happening on October 1. And despite being in the calendar, a part of me is really waffling on...

Meta Blogging

Meta Blogging

e[lust] So you know that e[lust] has a modified summer schedule, right? Well it’s time for edition #18, submissions are open till Tuesday. I also am still looking for people to volunteer to be...

Meta Blogging

Meta Blogging

e[lust] So you know that e[lust] has a modified summer schedule, right? Well it’s time for edition #18, submissions are open till Tuesday. I also am still looking for people to volunteer to be...

Do you masturbate…..a lot?

Do you masturbate…..a lot?

Hubs got this today for our kitchen, for those times when your hands are yucky with raw chicken juices or whatnot: As he was reading the brochure: The spout sensor soap pump dispenses soap...

Are vibrators dangerous?

Are vibrators dangerous?

Given that my blog address and title both contain the word “dangerous” I get hits from google searches on sexual things being dangerous (or not). Since I talk about vibrators and blow jobs a...

How quickly we forget

How quickly we forget

Very short post today, as my brain is fried and this sense of being overwhelmed just won’t quit. I’ve been reading a lot of things lately in the sex bloggosphere that make me shake...

How quickly we forget

How quickly we forget

Very short post today, as my brain is fried and this sense of being overwhelmed just won’t quit. I’ve been reading a lot of things lately in the sex bloggosphere that make me shake...

Contest Winners Announced!

Contest Winners Announced!

Thanks to everyone who entered the giveaway, but mostly a big huge thank you to those who donated the prizes! I had 443 contest entries overall. Very shortly after this post goes live, I...

Have you gotten all your entries in, yet?

Have you gotten all your entries in, yet?

My big 2-year blog anniversary (no way that I spell “blogiversary” looks right. Bloggiversary? Blogoversary? meh) giveaway ends tomorrow night (Thursday July 1st)! Have you entered yet? There’s three ways to enter: A blog...

Judgmental Women

Judgmental Women

Ask any heavy woman and she’ll most likely admit to have some (or many) moments of feeling a perceived shame against her, just for her weight. I say perceived because the majority of people...

OKCupid: You fail. BIG time.

OKCupid: You fail. BIG time.

So not too long ago I got this email from OkCupid. I haven’t logged on there in a good long while, (read: months) and so I was confused to see an email from them....

2 Years

2 Years

Two years. 500 posts. 5700 comments. 386,000 visitors to my site. ~1,000 subscribers to my feed. 80 sex toy / sexy fun items reviewed. 4 trips to NYC, 1 trip to Seattle, and 1...

Dangerous Lilly’s Milestone Giveaway!

Dangerous Lilly’s Milestone Giveaway!

The contest is closed now, thanks to all who entered!! This year it actually occurred to me more than a week in advance that oh yeah…..my blogiversary is coming up and I should do...

Some days we need a little hope…

Some days we need a little hope…

Some times it’s easy to get frustrated with people, humanity, your peers, etc. I know I’ve become very guilty of that lately, because it seems that I am witnessing too many idiots, too much...