A different kind of sex toy party?
About a month ago one of my ex-coworkers that I’m still friends with asked me to come along with her to her friend’s sex toy party. This friend, N, is one of very few...
Category: real life
(not so) Great Expectations
I haven’t blogged in a while, not entirely intentionally. I keep meaning to finish up the Erogenous Zones series, but this whole moving/trying to find a place to move to shit has ALL of...
Change is inevitable
In 3 months, a new life for me begins. In 3 months we’ll be moving a few states away. In 3 months I will no longer have to drag my ass every day into...
Erogenous Zones 1: Head & Neck
Starting up at the top for this series and the spot to talk about is the head and neck (but not the face, that’s a week all on it’s own). There’s a lot I...
A Quick Thank You
I’ve seen that a few people have purchased their (presumed) holiday sex toys through my affiliate links, and I just wanted to tell you how grateful I am, the extra little bit helps especially...
Blowjobs and Salad
This is just one of those mishmash random updates posts because I can’t be arsed to write a proper post and so you get these bizarre gems of my overwrought brain and meandering anxiety-fueled...
“I can’t orgasm – and it’s not your fault”
Author’s Disclaimer to head off certain criticism at the pass: I am not a doctor. This post was not written by a doctor. What is true for me, my husband and some others is...
Not tonight…
Hopefully with this 4-day weekend I have coming up I’ll find time to hammer out posts in the tiny chunks I can handle but for now…..I can’t write, I can’t think, I’m exhausted, I’m...
Safety Has a Price
….and it’s not cheap. Ever since I started my job in the city I’ve had to deal with terrible parking. Be it far away or expensive or in a shady area or a combination...
All of my contest luck was saved for right now
Since I’ve started blogging, I’ve entered numerous little contests and giveaways. Never won. I even attended 2 NYSexBloggerCalendar parties, purchased yards of raffle tickets, and never won. In fact, I think I’ve entered 4...
The “Not My Bed” Aphrodisiac
With thoughts of writing this post, I queried my Twitter followers the other day. “When you and your SO find yourself sleeping in a bed that’s not your own, do you fuck? Is the...
I couldn’t think of a title
This post? Not about teh sexy. If you come here solely for that, this is fair warning that you can safely skip this post. I’ve been living in abject fear for the last 3...
I Heart NY….but…
But I won’t be going there this year for the NYC Sex Blogger Calendar Party. I’m 95% certain on this. I say 95% because there is still a tiny portion of me that is...
Digital Flirting
A lot has changed in the world of internet dating/chatting/flirting since I first started. And it makes me realize that in some ways, it’s still the same but in other ways….. you youngins have...
What’s good for the Gander isn’t always good for the Goose
Remember this swimsuit? It worked well for me back when I wore it for physical therapy. But now I’m wearing it for my newly-joined water aerobics classes. Thankfully the class takes place in the...
