Category: Navel-Gazing

The Lilly List

The Lilly List

I read about this holiday wishlist meme on various blogs and thought it was a really nice idea. I’ve got a few wishes out there that I might be able to grant – it...

Musings on e[lust]

Musings on e[lust]

You can’t please everyone all the time. A platitude that is true and one that bears repeating. When I started e[lust] it was equally meant to be a replacement for the extinct Sugasm, but...

Off my rocker

Off my rocker

Well, I made it through the holiday and weekend without killing somebody or getting disowned. Barely. Dinner with the in-laws actually wasn’t *quite* as bad as I expected, perhaps because this time they were...

Catharsis

Catharsis

She always was able to lose herself in a good book. Her vivid imagination painted the scene, conjured up the voices, simulated the emotions. It was a blessing and yet sometimes a curse. As...

Snark n’ Vinegar

Snark n’ Vinegar

*Disclaimer: I’m kinda off my meds right now. Well, some of them. Somehow going OFF the stimulants has me more awake to the point of being jittery, has dissolved the “inappropriate filter” a good...

And so it begins…

And so it begins…

It’s done, it’s finished, it’s up. The first edition of e[lust] is finally out the door. Whew! I had great helpers but I still had a lot of work to do – hopefuly by...

*yawn*

*yawn*

As I predicted, my body didn’t appreciate the weekend antics. I’m still recovering from it physically and mentally. But also I’m feverishly trying to find the theme I want for the self-hosted e[lust] site....

Enjoy the Silence

Enjoy the Silence

Forgive the even bigger silences around here till next week – I’ve packing to do!! I’m terrible at packing. I can make half a dozen lists and still be scrambling at the last minute...

Anonymity and Facebook

Anonymity and Facebook

More babbling and boring words, in my effort to just write about “whatever” and  not strive to fit into the theme of the blog. Bear with me :P I might lose readers, but I...

Someone stole my words

Someone stole my words

As you can see, I’ve written very little this month. The words just won’t come out, the block is being stubborn. Perhaps I have expressive aphasia or perhaps I’ve just watched too many episodes...

Cranky

Cranky

Ya know, I don’t do it often, but tonight I’m just gonna let the crankiness flow. Mmkay? Glad you’re with me. So I don’t know why the fuck I still have a profile on...

Floodgates

Floodgates

Last Saturday, the floodgates opened for traffic to my blog. This screencap shows Saturday’s hourly numbers – the jump from normal to holymotherofgod! While I had already been getting perhaps 50-75 hits a day...

Missed Connections and Long Shots

Missed Connections and Long Shots

{no HNT this week, outta pics and haven’t had the time or ability to take new ones. next week!} Ah, Craigslist. Such hope, such possibility, such fodder for snark. A couple months ago I...

Feeling Cheeky

Feeling Cheeky

I’ve been spending a good bit of time lately on a couple of sexy forums/bulletin boards. (No, I’m not saying which ones, protecting my privacy a bit) Between posting and sharing pics (99% of...

Loved

Loved

When I dug deep into the blackness and confessed my flaws yesterday, I never expected the reaction that I got. I expected for people to read that post and think about how much of...