When all else fails…make your own
My main chat partner during the boring work days he’s not really been around much lately. Pressures and stress from work and home coupled with just being too busy have ended with him uninterested/unavailable...
Category: Navel-Gazing
The Ghost of the Mysterious “J”
Every once in a while I chat/email with someone and the “click” is there immediately. I wish I could produce the formula that equates to this click, but I don’t really know. It was...
Are vibrators making my clit MORE sensitive??
Be it from uninformed talk or uneducated fear, or both, I know I’ve read in many places that consistent use of a vibrator on your clit will make it harder for you to orgasm...
Depression and blogging
This blog is a sad and sorry state of affairs. It really is, lately. My writings have suffered and I haven’t figured out why, exactly. Until I’m too deep in it to come out....
I need a new highway
A fresh start, a new view, some new influences. A new muse. A new flirt. How can you help? Easy. Take a look at my blogroll down there, and recommend a good sexy blogger...
Fleshbot’s New Feature: Yay or Nay?
The other day I found that Fleshbot, previous home of the traffic-boosting Sex Blog Round-Up, is getting bloggers to agree to letting them re-post content. Specifically, YOU write a post and it’s published on...
This blog takes me many places….
Thanks to this blog I’ve been to NYC four times now whereas I’d never been there before. I’ve become friends with people all over the country, and even in other hemispheres! But this time,...
Navigating Genderqueer in Suburbia
I live in a Blue State. But the attitudes that I encounter here regarding anything other than hetero-cis-male/female are decidedly NOT along the lines of what most democrats/liberals usually are. While you can certainly...
Bra shopping fail
Off I went last week to my local Lane Bryant Outlet store to replace one of the newer “really uplifting” bras I purchased last summer. After being pretty sure that the bra I picked...
Getting Creative
This weekend had a lot of creativity in it in many different forms. First on Saturday night after a lovely long bath taken together, husband accomplished something that was previously so rare that I...
When the Brain Doesn’t Match the Body
(This post first appeared over at Edencafe.com) First let me explain my take on the “typical” brain of feminine vs masculine. I do realize that just by saying that I’ve already ruffled some feathers....
Beautiful, Geeky and Sensual…in a Mouse?
I have expensive taste, so it wouldn’t shock me to find out that this mouse, if it ever goes to sale, will be over $150. I. Love. It. LOVE. It’s a glowy-ish gorgeous red,...
When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L
There are two sides to me. The Lilly you see online and the L that most others see in reality (and how I feel in reality). Sometimes there is a bleeding of the edges...
Isn’t it Ironic
You know how sometimes you don’t realize something as being true until it comes falling out of your mouth with no premeditated thought? Writing is like that, for me. It can be how I...
Lost and Found
I plan to write more on this, for this blog, but for now this is just a quick meta-post. The post before this one detailed how I finally care enough about me, for myself,...
