Ask Lilly: How to Buy Sex Toys Online
Recently I had someone ask how a certain sex toy retailer shipped their toys to me; if it was safe, would her roommates know what was in the box, etc. Purchasing sex toys is...
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Yes, Jelly Sex Toys can be Dangerous
Author’s Note: Yes this is an older post, but I update it with new information when I can. The information contained here is only the start and if you are curious, if you have...
The Carpal Tunnel of Love
A couple more Formspring questions to answer! Do you have a favorite ‘go-to’ fantasy while masturbating? Usually I don’t fantasize. My mind is too much like a tv that the channel-up button on the...
Ask Lilly: Talking to a skeptical partner about outside sex
I received a Formspring question that really made me think. I’m going to do my best to give my opinions, my advice, and then open the floor to my readers for their input. Lilly,...
Ask Lilly: How do I know if a sex toy has phthalates in it?
Another Formspring question here! When looking for a new toy how do you know if it does or does not have pthalates? asked by mydnitebyte First, a definition from Wikipedia: Phthalates, or phthalate esters,...
Are vibrators dangerous?
Given that my blog address and title both contain the word “dangerous” I get hits from google searches on sexual things being dangerous (or not). Since I talk about vibrators and blow jobs a...
Does Size Matter?
This question was very simply asked of me recently on my Formspring. It seems to be a very popular question for men to ask of women. Is it perhaps those that might fall into...
Ask Lilly: How to Choose Your First Dildo (Updated!)
If you’re buying your first dildo, you’re probably unsure where to even begin. Look at any given sex toy retailer site that offers a half-decent selection and you are bound to be overwhelmed by...
Ask Lilly: Choosing a Male Masturbator
When guys email me for sex toy buying advice for themselves, one of the two topics is choosing a masturbator sleeve. There’s many different types out there. The infamous Fleshlight; the colorful ones that...
Contingency Plan: Part 2
So yesterday I told you about these evil crawler bots and how they’re able to silently corrupting blog files into oblivion if you don’t catch it soon enough. Even if you do figure it...
Contingency Plan: Part 1
Wondering where I’ve been? This post should give you a good idea. However, this post has nothing to do with sex. It’s pure blogging geek. Feel free to skip this is you’re not a ...
Ask Lilly: Introducing a Couple to Sex Toys
I’d say about once a week I am asked by my readers to recommend sex toys. Men, women, couples…..specific queries or newbie general “I just want a sex toy” questions, I get them all....
Rant: FYP (For Your Pleasure) Sex Toy Parties
I know that at these FYP sex toy parties, the hostess doesn’t have products to let people take home right then and there so they DO have to pay the tax and shipping. They’re bullied and pressured into buying something before they can have time to go look for a better deal elsewhere or a more pleasing color. I’d be willing to bet my left tit that the hostesses of these parties NEVER talk about phthalates and using condoms on toys.
Questions & Answers (1)
If you’re on Twitter, I’m sure you’ve seen a bunch of your comrades doing the Formspring thing, and likely you are too. A couple people prodded me to do one, but rebel that I...
Ask Lilly: Introducing Your Personal Shopper
I like making people happy. Sex makes people happy. No, this doesn’t mean I’m going to become Lilly, International Prostitute (although some days I consider it, when the bank account balance weebles and wobbles)....
