Search Term Edition of Ask Lilly
While you’re waiting on me to finish up some reviews, and while I was procrastinating on everything I actually *should* be working on, I scrolled through some search terms that led people to my...
Category: Ask Lilly
Wood Sex Toys: An Introduction
WOOD SEX TOYS?!? But won’t I get SPLINTERS?!? When I encounter a wood sex toy newbie, the “splinters” bit is bound to come up right away. Either in an attempt at a joke or...
Regretsy for Sex Toys: Clay and Wax Dildos
Subtitled: How to make a sex toy activist have a heart attackORStupid Human Tricks: Sex Toy EditionALSODon’t try this at home In research for my post about wood sex toys, I’ve been spending time...
Deciphering the Results of the Flame Test
tl;dr : If you don’t care to understand “why” then focus on the Header text, the color-coded bullet lists below, and the color-coded photo examples. This will explain everything you need to know to...
How Porous is Your Sex Toy? Why Does it Matter?
Safety of sex toy materials is not exactly a black and white thing. People really focus on phthalates an awful lot; and while I absolutely agree that they’re terrible, they’re not the only thing...
Homemade Sex Toy Wipes to Help Keep Silicone Toys Clean
If you’re a fan of silicone sex toys (and if you’re a reader of this site, you’d better be!) you know that many toys, especially the plugs and dildos, attract lint/dust/fur better than your...
The Best (and worst) Sex Toys of 2013
Welcome to the 2013 “Best Sex Toys” list from The Pickiest Sex Toy Reviewer, Ever. And because I really want to make sure you always get your dose of reality, we have a list...
Sex Toys and Body Size
As a “plus sized”/fat lady, I have some unique needs when it comes to sex toys that my thinner peers don’t experience. Often times I think that some of these issues/unique needs are very...
Sex Blogger Education: Basics of Paid Advertising
Once you’ve developed a bit of a “presence” online, with good traffic and other blog-qualifier numbers, you’re bound to get contacted by a company asking if you’ll post their text link (some will outright...
WordPress .com….deleting adult blogs??
Hot on the heels of the Blogger debacle wherein Blogspot.com owners were given less than a week to remove ads and affiliate links from their adult blog, WordPress.com gets in on the action. Unlike...
“For Novelty Use Only” Part 2
If you’re arrived here from elsewhere, be sure to read Part 1 first. As “toxic sex toys” are being talked about more and consumers and retailers are slowly being educated more, the idea of...
Newbie Guide to Twitter: The Sex Blogger Edition
There are a lot of guides to using Twitter out there, but I really feel like sex bloggers are a smaller group. We talk to each other a LOT and we even talk to...
“For Novelty Use Only” Part 1
The sex toy industry is rife with half-truths, flat-out lies, confusing names for materials and more. When information is put out there that seems to make sense and seems credible, it gets passed on...
Dildology: The Science of Sex Toys
Backstory: I like to flame test my silicone sex toys, and pretty much do it to every item. When the JimmyJane Hello Touch failed my flame test, I first showed it to some other...
Lelo Ina – Silence of the Lambs Edition
When I was a kid, two instances showed a glimpse into my true nature: One, when I took apart my old Simon electronic game at age 9 just because I had no idea how...
