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Have you gotten all your entries in, yet?

My big 2-year blog anniversary (no way that I spell “blogiversary” looks right. Bloggiversary? Blogoversary? meh) giveaway ends tomorrow night (Thursday July 1st)! Have you entered yet?

There’s three ways to enter: A blog post, Tweets and submitting a post of mine to Stumbleupon, Digg, Delicious, etc. For the exact entry method be sure to read the rules!

You still have time to do at least the submitting and the blog posts, right there that’s 15 entries! I’ve noticed that some people are forgetting crucial parts of the entry rules so here’s a highlight:

1. For every entry, there must be a comment. If you do a blog post, you get 10 entries, which means 10 comments.

2. In your comment, you have to tell me which prize (just one per comment, you can split up your entries though) you want! If I don’t know, it won’t count! I have hundreds of entries.

3. As I said in #1, you must comment! I’ve seen Twitter entries from people I don’t know that never came here to comment. I can’t count it if it’s not here as a comment, Twitter is inaccurate for finding the entries!

Take a look at the comments in the post and make sure all of your entries are there, and correct!I’ve had a TON of entries for the Maui Kink prize, and of course the Njoy Pure Wand from SheVibe. A lot for the Fleshlight from Fascinations, too! So if you enter now for the Kink Academy membership, the Tantus Twilight Vamp Dildo from MyPleasure or the Wahl massager from GoodVibes, you’ve got a really excellent chance at winning!

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Wanton Wednesday: Reflection

Last weekend the hubs and I went to Kohls for one thing but managed to come out with a bunch of other unintended things. That’s always the case with us, it seems. Some of the things I came out of there with included a few really cute tops. One of them is a two-piece, and both pieces are sheer. When the patterned overshirt though is on with the camisole, you don’t know the cami is sheer. I didn’t realize until I was disrobing and hubs started staring like this wolf. To further tease him I did that trick of taking off the bra without taking off the camisole. His lascivious grin then became more like this wolf.

While I was sitting down at the computer a bit later I thought this glimpse through my make-up mirror was pretty cool so that’s how you get it.

 

 

 

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Judgmental Women

Ask any heavy woman and she’ll most likely admit to have some (or many) moments of feeling a perceived shame against her, just for her weight. I say perceived because the majority of people are not rude enough to say to your face how disgusted they are by your excess fat or your healthy appetite. And by “to your face” I mean in person. Bloggieland gives many people false bravado and arrogance.

Why do we assume they’re giving us the body-check-glance and thinking all sorts of negative things? Probably because of the internet, to be frank. Because we can read their thoughts that they feel safe in saying to the faceless nameless crowd. Perhaps some overweight women were also overweight in the years of primary school and high school, when children can be downright mean.

We might feel like shit when we realize we’re the largest person in the room.

We might purposely under-eat when in the company of thinner acquaintances for fear they’ll think we’re a pig for eating like a normal, healthy person.

And…..we might unfairly be judging people. That which we fear and assume is happening to us.

This weekend I found myself at a family reunion wherein half of the family are people I wouldn’t recognize if I passeed in the street – heck some I’ve never met! There were two women there a little younger than me, both thin, both gorgeous. I felt intimidated. I’m sure they were very nice people but I unfairly assumed otherwise; assumed they were judging me. This didn’t occur to me until I spoke out loud how I felt more comfortable speaking to one of the afore-mentioned women after hearing that she’d spent some time pretty overweight herself and struggled to lose it. Granted, her weight issues and weight loss were nothing like mine. But I still had this newly-perceived camaraderie. Comfort.

I need to fucking stop doing this. I have more than enough friends in this community who are thin and who are NOT judging me based on my weight alone. And I need to lose the pointless body-envy.

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Wanton Wednesday: Oral Fixation

This is an unused out-take from a bunch of photos I took to be considered for a post I wrote last year on my oral fixations. Another version went on to Tits for Troops, I’ll be posting that here next week I think.

 

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OKCupid: You fail. BIG time.

So not too long ago I got this email from OkCupid. I haven’t logged on there in a good long while, (read: months) and so I was confused to see an email from them. I’d turned off all other ones, so was curious why the fuck they were bugging me.

What did this email tell me?

Here, you can see for yourself:

*blinks*

They’re now segregating based on perceived attractiveness.

I’ll let that sink in a mo’.

No, I’ll just let it sit there on it’s own, because I’m just too damn flabbergasted about it to say much more right now.

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