Manners, Community and Blogging
Today, something quite unusual happened. I received a friend request on Facebook ~which was preceded by an introduction message~. I imagine some of you are cocking your head like “what’s that?”, right? I have...
Tagged: blog life vs. real life
Wake The Neighbors….
When I recently visited my longtime friend, the topic turned of course to sex at one or two points. Clinical, theoretical, opinionated talks. One topic, after numerous drinks by the couple, turned to how...
Sex Toy Reviewer Meets the Real World
A few weeks ago I spent some time with a childhood friend that I hadn’t seen in years. She was the first person from the “real world” that I’ve known for years that I...
MomentumCon – The Impending Return of My Bubble of Amazing People
In less than a week I’ll be at Momentum, back in my beloved bubble of My People. Of course, in exactly a week’s time from right now, the moment I’m writing this, the bubble...
Assumptions and Asshats – That’s a lot of ass, and not in the good way
“She was asking for it, dressed like that” It’s a common “rape apologist” statement. The women who are raped are blamed because they dared to present themselves as a sexual being. I think that...
Uncharted
No words My tears won’t make any room for ’em, oh And it don’t hurt Like anything I’ve ever felt before This is no broken heart No familiar scars This territory goes uncharted...
The Last Day of Our Acquaintance
I write this post on my last day of the job I was working when I started this blog. It wouldn’t feel right to not blog today while at work. Well. Kind of. 2...
2 Years
Two years. 500 posts. 5700 comments. 386,000 visitors to my site. ~1,000 subscribers to my feed. 80 sex toy / sexy fun items reviewed. 4 trips to NYC, 1 trip to Seattle, and 1...
Contingency Plan: Part 2
So yesterday I told you about these evil crawler bots and how they’re able to silently corrupting blog files into oblivion if you don’t catch it soon enough. Even if you do figure it...
Contingency Plan: Part 1
Wondering where I’ve been? This post should give you a good idea. However, this post has nothing to do with sex. It’s pure blogging geek. Feel free to skip this is you’re not a ...
When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L
There are two sides to me. The Lilly you see online and the L that most others see in reality (and how I feel in reality). Sometimes there is a bleeding of the edges...
Vegas, Baby!
So a month or so ago I told you guys about Twisted Monk doing another Rope Bondage class, this time in Vegas. Well, the reason it was Vegas is because Tess and Diva were...
Anonymity and Facebook
More babbling and boring words, in my effort to just write about “whatever” and not strive to fit into the theme of the blog. Bear with me :P I might lose readers, but I...
Cranky
Ya know, I don’t do it often, but tonight I’m just gonna let the crankiness flow. Mmkay? Glad you’re with me. So I don’t know why the fuck I still have a profile on...
Ruckus in 3…2….(boom)
Earlier this week, Sinclair asked on Twitter if any reviewer had any massage oils/candles that they didn’t want and cared to swap for. So I emailed, offering up my one Babeland massage candle. Anyways,...
