Feb 062011

So I missed a week for a few reasons, and now we’re back on track. This week is Arms.

For me, it’s mostly rough/kinky on this area, to the degree of pain that my fibro can tolerate (my upper arms are sensitive)

Wrists pinned down to the bed on either side of my head.

Wrists held together by a big, strong hand at the small of my back as I’m fucked from behind, face on the bed, ass in the air.

Wrists and arms bound with rope.

Previous weeks: Head & Neck; Face; Hand & Feet; Breasts & Back

Next week: Legs (See the full scheduled here)

Play along on your own blog or just comment here and weigh in….if you’re posting your own, leave your link here!

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Jan 092011

When I think about my face and what sexual things get to me, it’s really my lips that take center stage. I am very orally fixated. I like doing things with my lips and my tongue; sucking and biting and licking and engulfing. But it goes beyond that. Beyond just how high kissing ranks for me. My lips just simply like touch. I’ve noted before that when I’m highly aroused and not physically near a partner I will find that I unconsciously rub my lips lightly with my fingers. Tracing, touch, brushing. When I’m aroused the one body part that I want attention spent on more than even the very-obvious clitoris is my lips.

I like when other lips hover over my skin and my cheeks. The teasing of the kiss to come.

Many people like having their eyelids lightly kissed but due to some spatial-related eye phobia I can’t tolerate having something that close to my eyeball with no control from me over it.

The forehead is not sexual, to me, it is…loving, at best. Fraternal/paternal/etc. A kiss on the forehead shows caring but not passion.

I like thumbs and fingers and palms on my cheeks. Caressing, holding, cupping. Lifting, making me look. Bringing me in and keeping me there.

My eyes….not what they feel, but what they see….this is something for me that’s an anomaly I’m sure. Yes I like looking at beautiful things and arousing bodies but when I’m receiving pleasure I can’t look anywhere. I have to close my eyes. The ADD has my brain already so scrambled that focus is something I’m always reaching for, like orgasm. So if I close my eyes in order to feel more then my chances for orgasm increase. Yes….I have to concentrate on what I’m feeling to know what I’m feeling.

Last Week: Head & Neck

Next week: Hands & Feet (See the full scheduled here)

Play along on your own blog or just comment here and weigh in….if you’re posting your own, leave your link here!

Jan 022011

Starting up at the top for this series and the spot to talk about is the head and neck (but not the face, that’s a week all on it’s own). There’s a lot I can write about what I like done to me, and a lot I’ve written about already.

Choking / Breath play –  Roughness. Loss of control. Power play. All of these are the aspects of the appeal to me in the right setting with the right person. I guess “appeal” would be putting it mildly. I don’t consider myself very high up on the kinky scale anymore but this is one dominance move that still gets to me in the good way.

Hair Pulling – When it’s done right, it makes me submissive. Just how submissive depends on other factors, of course. Hair pulling done wrong can just hurt in the bad way, but hair pulling done right is almost an art.

Kissing/biting/sucking that sweet spot, that one right there on the side – No matter the context, it turns me to jelly. Well, I take it back – not always. Sometimes it can just tickle like crazy. I could have sworn that I wrote about this before but I can’t find it. Which is odd, in that I didn’t write about it. Anyways, usually I prefer enough force on the sucking/biting that it creates a very prominent hickey – girls who wear turtlenecks have no problems covering up such things but me? I don’t even own a crew-neck top.

Play along on your own blog or just comment here and weigh in. Next week’s topic: The face.

What do you like?

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Dec 272010

Blogging prompts for the sex blogger world are really lacking, lately. If there are any I don’t know about them – so point me to them! When you can’t find what you’re looking for (if you’re me, at least) you create your own. So I’m creating my own! Starting in January on Sunday/Monday (very flexible with the day) I’m going to be writing about various body parts / erogenous zones and my take on them; if they’re erogenous for me, and if so how and if not why they aren’t. If you’d like to join me in doing this then go ahead and blog your own version and let me know about it. Feel free to link to my post so that others who read yours can join in.

I haven’t yet decided the order of things. Random? Start at the top? Start at the bottom? My list of body parts/sections:

  • Feet & Ankles
  • Legs (as a whole, I guess? Or should I divide it up between lower legs + knees and then thighs? If I divide it up, then ankles will be part of lower legs….thoughts?)
  • Ass
  • Back
  • Hands
  • Arms
  • Sex organs – write about what you have, not your partner
  • Chest/Breasts
  • Neck & Head
  • Face

If you think you’d participate in some/all of these – Too many? Should I combine some? Divide it up further? For those who’d like to join in – This is meant to be a writing exercise, not another photo meme. I won’t have a word count, though. Write as little or as much as you want on the subject. There will be one every week.

Final Schedule:

  • Head & Neck – Week of Jan 2nd
  • Face – Week of Jan 9th
  • Hands & Feet – Week of Jan 16th
  • Chest/Breasts & Back – Week of Jan 23rd
  • Arms – Week of Jan 30th
  • Legs – Week of Feb 6th
  • Sex Organs (yours, not your partner) – Week of Feb 13th
  • Ass – Week of Feb 20th

If you decide to join in on any given week, please comment on my post for that week (not this one, as it’ll soon be buried), mine will always go up on Sundays. If you want to tell others about this writing prompt, link to this post as it has the schedule and the info. Just an FYI – Your post doesn’t have to go up on Sunday, anybody can join in that week or you can even be late if you’ve just come across this writing prompt late into the game and you see topics you’d like to write about. All I ask though is that you don’t skip ahead ;)

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