Jan 232011
 

Well, consider it pretty much the entire torso, I guess

Many kinksters will likely talk about how they love to have their back whipped. Having a low pain tolerance and never really experiencing this, I can’t add much kink to today’s post. Many people will also talk about how a good back massage can be a lovely addition to foreplay or afterplay. I wish I could enjoy them but my muscles are generally just too tender for the way most people do a massage.

A back scratch, though?

I will damn near purr. Seriously. Nails-to-skin and especially if I’ve just unsnapped my bra. The entire back, please, shoulders to ass, big round ever-moving patterns. I will take as long of a back scratch as the scratcher has the arm strength/stamina to give. This relaxes me like little else.

Moving on to the front. I hate to have my belly touched, so that leaves my breasts. I’ve read in numerous places that the larger a woman’s breasts are, the less sensitive she is. The same amount of nerve endings are spread out over more skin. For me this leaves me in a weird place of “Either don’t touch them much, or do it hard/rough”. Gentle caresses are both barely felt and highly anxiety-inducingly-irritating. I can’t really explain it, honestly. If a lover is gently kissing/licking my nipples I am more squicked/irritated than anything else. If I have my eyes closed I barely know they’re down there doing anything.

So while my pain tolerance isn’t very high, and I can’t stand it for long, if you’re going to suck then make it rough, baby. Pull. Squeeze. I’ll tell you when to stop. Given this you’d think I would enjoy nipple clamps but they also squick me. I can’t view them on another person and I sure as fuck can’t tolerate them being on me. Hell for that matter even seeing pierced nippples bothers me. In a cover-my-own-and-cringe sort of way. It’s purely psychological but I can’t really explain it.


Previous weeks: Head & Neck; Face; Hand & Feet

Next week: Arms (See the full scheduled here)

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  • http://joker-satx.livejournal.com/ Joker_SATX

    OK, so I rarely post here but I have to say that when the wife and I are going at it and she is reaching her climax and digs her nails into my back? That is a HUGE turn-on….HUGE!

  • http://scandalinthechoirloft.blogspot.com D Scandal

    Back scratches are the best. I didn’t think to include that. Here’s mine! http://scandalinthechoirloft.blogspot.com/2011/01/erogenous-zones.html

  • http://blue-eyedvixen.com/ Vixen

    Oh this is my favorite so far…. I use my nails. It’s a running joke with my lover and I. The closer I get to climax, the more difficult it is to not dig my nails in.

    And a mouth….teeth on my nipples….it drives me insane. In *SUCH* an insane way…..

  • NymphetamineKiss

    This is a really great one, and once I started thinking about it I was surprised that I got more excited by the back than the front!

    Aaaaaand I finally got mine up!
    http://nymphetamine-kiss.com/?p=218

    Looking forward to next week :)
    NK x

  • http://harlotoverdrive.com Harlot Overdrive

    “For me this leaves me in a weird place of “Either don’t touch them much, or do it hard/rough”. Gentle caresses are both barely felt and highly anxiety-inducingly-irritating. I can’t really explain it, honestly. If a lover is gently kissing/licking my nipples I am more squicked/irritated than anything else. If I have my eyes closed I barely know they’re down there doing anything.”

    OH MY GOD YES. It’s like you have reached into my head and yanked out the best description for how awful the light, tender touch on big breasts is. I’m delighted to find someone else who understands this!!

    (By the way.. Hi, I’m Harlot! Check out my blog sometime? ;))