Category: Thoughts & Opinions
Thanks to Teagan for the Coalition name ;) I read something somewhere recently, an innocuous little joke-in-poor-taste, where the author (a reviewer, no less) made a comment likening the ownership of “too many” sex...
Tips on how to design your blog so that it walks the line between graphically representing your personality and your blog’s personality while maintaining a visually pleasing color palette and being easy to read.
This post is part of the Gender Celebration Carnival. Check it out and consider joining in the next one! Be sure to also visit Ellie Lumpesse my predecessor in the carnival (and curator) and...
It seems that my rants lately are being spurred by a deluge of emails from various and sundry companies all looking for a hand-out of some kind. Thing is….I’m not stupid. And I’m not...
I have a great deal with you. Why not earn generous recurring commission with your blog? I believe you will make a great affiliate partner when you promote sex toys and “safe for work”...
Here’s two misconceptions that I’m going to clear up straight off the bat. 1. That just because I create & run something, doesn’t mean I’m a dictator. e[lust] is as much yours as it...
One of the mind-altering panel sessions that I attended at Momentum was Who is SexyKitty69? Exploring the social media pros & cons of anonymity. Twanna Hines1, moderator, and Shanna Katz2, Samantha Fraser3 and Stef...
Today I started updating my blogroll page; culling dead links, adding long-overdue blogs by people I like, etc. And it got me thinking about my practices versus other peoples, especially when I received an...
A quick break in my lovefest blogging of MomentumCon. Today’s post is brought to you by the never-failing producer of sex blog fodder, OkCupid. Now, I could just ignore this email. But I’m actually...
I’m not on OkCupid these days looking for a hook-up or a date – but more for friends. So when I put in who I’m looking for, I selected “everyone”. So on my homescreen...
There are a lot of ways that bloggers can be unethical. Mind you, ethics don’t always equal human kindness/respect for others. You can be a snarky, grumpy shit-stirrer but still be ethical. You can...
When I think about my face and what sexual things get to me, it’s really my lips that take center stage. I am very orally fixated. I like doing things with my lips and...
Warning: This post may be triggering to survivors of sexual assault My late father was a forensic scientist. For a long time I had wanted to be just like daddy when I grew up...
Last year I did this survey and decided to do it again, just slightly modified here and there. 1. What did you do that you’d never done before? Met a longtime close friend in...
Blogging prompts for the sex blogger world are really lacking, lately. If there are any I don’t know about them – so point me to them! When you can’t find what you’re looking for...