Sex Toy Reviewer Meets the Real World
A few weeks ago I spent some time with a childhood friend that I hadn’t seen in years. She was the first person from the “real world” that I’ve known for years that I...
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A Very Merry Un-Birthday….to Me
Today was my birthday. Yet it was also an un-birthday. What I mean is that it really wasn’t celebrated in any traditional sense. And you know what? It was pretty damn good. I lounged...
MomentumCon – The Impending Return of My Bubble of Amazing People
In less than a week I’ll be at Momentum, back in my beloved bubble of My People. Of course, in exactly a week’s time from right now, the moment I’m writing this, the bubble...
Re-thinking the Feasibility of Online Relationships
I used to believe wholeheartedly that online relationships – relationships of all varieties including platonic – were not only feasible but wonderful. I used to believe that one could get to know a person...
Conversations with an old friend…..
You know how very occasionally someone will surprise you? Yeah. I had that happen recently. A friend who just got separated from a passionless marriage is suddenly behaving like a 23 year old. Or,...
Dating Pool: OkCupid and their Questions
I wouldn’t say I’m using Okcupid for dates, per se, right now. I’m just not in a date-like frame of mind anymore it seems. But I AM actively using it to find like-minded friends,...
When the Brain Doesn’t Match the Body
(This post first appeared over at Edencafe.com) First let me explain my take on the “typical” brain of feminine vs masculine. I do realize that just by saying that I’ve already ruffled some feathers....
Regaining My Femme
This originally appeared over at Edencafe.com, but I’m re-posting it here in hopes of some helpful comments and giving my thoughts more exposure. As a little kid I can remember being quite the tomboy....
IN THE YEAR 2009
I’m stealing this from Hubman who stole it from NY Diva IN THE YEAR TWO THOUSAND…(NINE) 1. What did you do that you’d never done before? A few exhibitionist/voyeuristic things that have been written...
Questions & Answers (1)
If you’re on Twitter, I’m sure you’ve seen a bunch of your comrades doing the Formspring thing, and likely you are too. A couple people prodded me to do one, but rebel that I...
Loved
When I dug deep into the blackness and confessed my flaws yesterday, I never expected the reaction that I got. I expected for people to read that post and think about how much of...
24 Hours in Happyland
Happyland is my new name for Maryland. We had a “honeymoon lite” this weekend, just 24 hours and it was most decidedly not enough. The bayside town we go to is a spot where...
Tag, I’m it (again) – 6 quirks
I promise I’ll be short n sweet on this one…..really!! Sweet Cops Wife tagged me, here’s da rules: Here are the Rules: 1. Link to the person who tagged you 2. Post the rules...
Probably more than you wanted to know…
Oh well, fuck it. Some of you might appreciate this post. Others just come for teh sexeh, that’s fine, you can skip this ;) Random facts about me that are unrelated to sex, cause...
TMI Tuesday
Disclaimer: I never do these, and I rarely will. There, don’t you feel better? ;) I liked these questions this week, so I felt compelled to do them. A rare peek at the me...
