Contingency Plan: Part 1

Contingency Plan: Part 1

Wondering where I’ve been? This post should give you a good idea. However, this post has nothing to do with sex. It’s pure blogging geek. Feel free to skip this is you’re not a ...

Limited Edition Devine Playchest

Limited Edition Devine Playchest

The bulk and details of my actual review are over at Edenfantasys, but since I can’t post photos there, I’m doing it here. This item is something that I did as a “buy-out” review,...

Beautiful, Geeky and Sensual…in a Mouse?

Beautiful, Geeky and Sensual…in a Mouse?

I have expensive taste, so it wouldn’t shock me to find out that this mouse, if it ever goes to sale, will be over $150. I. Love. It. LOVE. It’s a glowy-ish gorgeous red,...

Boy Toy Reviews: Nexus Neo Prostate Massager

Boy Toy Reviews: Nexus Neo Prostate Massager

Aneros vs. Nexus Neo A number of years ago, my husband decided to explore prostate play and his main purchase for this matter was an Aneros brand prostate massager, the Aneros Maximus. These types...

When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L

When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L

There are two sides to me. The Lilly you see online and the L that most others see in reality (and how I feel in reality). Sometimes there is a bleeding of the edges...

Valentine’s Day: What will you be forced to do?

Valentine’s Day: What will you be forced to do?

Valentine’s Day. I’m married now, so I have no right to bitch about it, right? Wrong. I hate sitting there on V-day at work, watching others get flowers, and wondering why I didn’t. I...

Isn’t it Ironic

Isn’t it Ironic

You know how sometimes you don’t realize something as being true until it comes falling out of your mouth with no premeditated thought? Writing is like that, for me. It can be how I...

NYC Sex Blogger Calendar is recruiting nationwide!

NYC Sex Blogger Calendar is recruiting nationwide!

Reposted from the New York City Sex Bloggers Calendar website, which you should go check out because yours truly designed the header and the new sidebar buttons and I’m totally proud of them. :)...

e[lust] #6

e[lust] #6

HNT Courtesy of Having My Cake And Eating It Too Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot...

Ask Lilly: Introducing a Couple to Sex Toys

Ask Lilly: Introducing a Couple to Sex Toys

I’d say about once a week I am asked by my readers to recommend sex toys. Men, women, couples…..specific queries or newbie general “I just want a sex toy” questions, I get them all....

Lost and Found

Lost and Found

I plan to write more on this, for this blog, but for now this is just a quick meta-post. The post before this one detailed how I finally care enough about me, for myself,...

Regaining My Femme

Regaining My Femme

This originally appeared over at Edencafe.com, but I’m re-posting it here in hopes of some helpful comments and giving my thoughts more exposure. As a little kid I can remember being quite the tomboy....

Ultimate Massager Pocket Rocket Review

Ultimate Massager Pocket Rocket Review

I’m pretty fond of my clit vibrators and I harbor a special fondness for my old red pocket rocket. It was the first clit vibe that I bought and shockingly it ended up being...