Sex Toy Reviewer Meets the Real World
A few weeks ago I spent some time with a childhood friend that I hadn’t seen in years. She was the first person from the “real world” that I’ve known for years that I...
Category: Navel-Gazing
A Very Merry Un-Birthday….to Me
Today was my birthday. Yet it was also an un-birthday. What I mean is that it really wasn’t celebrated in any traditional sense. And you know what? It was pretty damn good. I lounged...
MomentumCon – The Impending Return of My Bubble of Amazing People
In less than a week I’ll be at Momentum, back in my beloved bubble of My People. Of course, in exactly a week’s time from right now, the moment I’m writing this, the bubble...
Re-thinking the Feasibility of Online Relationships
I used to believe wholeheartedly that online relationships – relationships of all varieties including platonic – were not only feasible but wonderful. I used to believe that one could get to know a person...
Buck Up, Buttercup, The World Ain’t Gonna End
A new year. An old one gone. Regrets. New promises. Who the hell knows what’ll happen. At least I know the world won’t end; apparently this isn’t the first time the Mayan Calendar reached...
Insomnia, Stupidity and Saved by The Bloggess
Ah, the holidays. I don’t know about you, but for me and the hubs it means lots of driving combined with sleeping in strange beds all wrapped up in being around 4 germ-infested children....
What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever masturbated with?
I wonder how many people have the cohones to truthfully respond to this question? I will allow you to be anonymous and won’t spill the beans if I know who you are, I promise...
There’s always one…
There will always be people who don’t like you or something you’re doing. After all, you can’t please everyone all the time. And because I am me – emotional, headstrong, attached, fucked up –...
Where I’ve Been: Comedy or Tragedy
I’ve not been around much lately. First, we were planning a weekend away which was cut short due to the winter storm that knocked out power for most of Connecticut. Then I had no...
Hysteria
Fucking. AWESOME. I can’t wait for this movie to come out. From the lovely Wikipedia: Female hysteria was a once-common medical diagnosis, made exclusively in women, which is today no longer recognized by modern...
The Dirty Little Secret
I’ll keep you my dirty little secret, Don’t tell anyone or you’ll be just another regret.~All American Rejects “Dirty Little Secret” For some people, being or having a “dirty little secret” is erotic in...
What Makes Me Happy: Sharing Sex Ed Info
Long ago and far away when I actually did HNT and then WW on a regular basis AND tried hard to get nice photos, it was quite a compliment when the occasional pic would...
All Apologies ( i need a fuckin rainbow)
Life happens, shit happens. Yesterday, I decided to go off of my “wakey wakey” drug for the day (Nuvigil, it does wonders for my ADD/fibro fatigue and fog) because I was getting a second...
LGBT Teens 2011 vs 1991
It’s been 20 years since I started high school. My high school was located in Western PA – I wouldn’t say it was an extremely conservative area but diversity wasn’t a word for us....
Your First Sex Toys – What Do Wish You’d Known?
As I begin to prepare for the strong possibility of doing a Sex Toy Education Workshop, hosted by a friend, I’m finding that there’s so much information I want to share and I don’t...
