MomentumCon – The Impending Return of My Bubble of Amazing People
In less than a week I’ll be at Momentum, back in my beloved bubble of My People. Of course, in exactly a week’s time from right now, the moment I’m writing this, the bubble...
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Re-thinking the Feasibility of Online Relationships
I used to believe wholeheartedly that online relationships – relationships of all varieties including platonic – were not only feasible but wonderful. I used to believe that one could get to know a person...
Buck Up, Buttercup, The World Ain’t Gonna End
A new year. An old one gone. Regrets. New promises. Who the hell knows what’ll happen. At least I know the world won’t end; apparently this isn’t the first time the Mayan Calendar reached...
Insomnia, Stupidity and Saved by The Bloggess
Ah, the holidays. I don’t know about you, but for me and the hubs it means lots of driving combined with sleeping in strange beds all wrapped up in being around 4 germ-infested children....
What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever masturbated with?
I wonder how many people have the cohones to truthfully respond to this question? I will allow you to be anonymous and won’t spill the beans if I know who you are, I promise...
Where I’ve Been: Comedy or Tragedy
I’ve not been around much lately. First, we were planning a weekend away which was cut short due to the winter storm that knocked out power for most of Connecticut. Then I had no...
Can a new and better bed be a boost to your sex life?
In recent years I feel like I’m part of that little fairy tale called The Princess and the Pea. I chalk it up to my messed up back and fibromyalgia and myofacial pain syndrome,...
The Dirty Little Secret
I’ll keep you my dirty little secret, Don’t tell anyone or you’ll be just another regret.~All American Rejects “Dirty Little Secret” For some people, being or having a “dirty little secret” is erotic in...
All Apologies ( i need a fuckin rainbow)
Life happens, shit happens. Yesterday, I decided to go off of my “wakey wakey” drug for the day (Nuvigil, it does wonders for my ADD/fibro fatigue and fog) because I was getting a second...
LGBT Teens 2011 vs 1991
It’s been 20 years since I started high school. My high school was located in Western PA – I wouldn’t say it was an extremely conservative area but diversity wasn’t a word for us....
Your First Sex Toys – What Do Wish You’d Known?
As I begin to prepare for the strong possibility of doing a Sex Toy Education Workshop, hosted by a friend, I’m finding that there’s so much information I want to share and I don’t...
Conversations with an old friend…..
You know how very occasionally someone will surprise you? Yeah. I had that happen recently. A friend who just got separated from a passionless marriage is suddenly behaving like a 23 year old. Or,...
Don’t want kids? The FDA, Mirena IUD and Health Insurance don’t care
It’s that time again…..much to my severe anxiety. I need to revisit birth control options. For the last 5 years I’ve been on the Mirena IUD. The decision that led to it was that...
Dating Pool: OkCupid and their Questions
I wouldn’t say I’m using Okcupid for dates, per se, right now. I’m just not in a date-like frame of mind anymore it seems. But I AM actively using it to find like-minded friends,...
Whataya Want From Me
He messed me up, need a second to breathe Just keep coming around, I won’t let you down I don’t really keep up with popular music very well unless they’re an artist I already...
