Tantus Giveaway! Get your hands on the Anaconda or the Bend Over kit!

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Feb 172012

Open to US participants – Win a Tantus Anaconda dildo or their Bend Over Intermediate kit (plus a t-shirt!) – Contest ends Feb 29th

Tantus Anaconda Dildo - 100% Pure Premium Silicone Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Kit with 2 Silk DildosTantus T-Shirt: Sticking it to the Man

Now that I’ve told you everything nerdy about silicone sex toys and Tantus sex toys, you get a chance to own one! The winner will get to choose between the Anaconda 1 or the Bend Over Intermediate Kit (I’m sure the lovely Jenna will let you choose your favorite color).

The Anaconda dildo is awesome because it has a handle. It’s a dildo..on a stick. 2 Ok no it’s not on a stick, sorry. But it is really unique. The Anaconda is made of a very firm silicone – for those of you familiar with the Flex, it’s like that, or those of you familiar with any O2 dildo it’s like the bottom layer. Solid, very solid. This enables the handle to actually, yanno, be a handle. It’s nearly a foot long overall, with 4″ of handle and 7″ of dildo (which is 1.75″ wide). You’ll have your choice of 3 colors.

The Bend Over Intermediate kit is great for pegging or vaginal sex. The super-comfortable Bend Over harness has a padded front, holds a bullet vibe for the wearer, and comes with 2 dildos, the Silk Medium: 1.25″ x 5.5″ and the Silk Large: 1.5″ x 7″. The harness will fit hips up to 60″. The o-ring snap point is really secure because it has 4 straps that hold the o-ring, not just 3. You can pick either the black or the purple kit.

I’ll be using the handy Rafflecopter to take in entries. If you have any questions at all on how to quantify your entry, leave a comment on this post and I’ll get back to you. While I would love to use the honor system, not everybody that enters contests is honorable, sadly, so I’ll need the link for confirmation (smart people will TEST their link to make sure it leads to something I’ll be able to see, or include a link to a screenshot of the submission to Reddit/Stumble/Digg if all else fails). Invalid entries will get tossed, I won’t be hunting you down to fix it. You may share a single post across all 4 social media sites, but then you can’t share/submit that one again for this contest.

p.s. did you know that you can use Facebook to sign into Stumbleupon & Digg? Makes it pretty easy to get daily entries.

The winner will get to choose between the Anaconda or the Bend Over kit; the winner will also get a t-shirt! (sizes S-3X) And yes, there will only be one winner overall, not one winner for each prize – I simply wanted my winner to have options. There’s plenty of things to do every day for an entry, though! Please be sure to read the terms and rules, k?

Since I clearly have to spell this out: Note to those doing the Facebook entries: You must be logged into Facebook when you “like” things, and do it through the Like button within Rafflecopter. If you don’t, it won’t provide me a link to your facebook, and without that I have no way of verifying your entry. Therefore, your entry will be invalid and removed, you won’t be entered into the drawing.

a Rafflecopter giveaway

  1. which I CANNOT read/say/think without immediately hearing the “My anaconda don’t want none unless you got buns hon” line in my head
Jun 172010

The contest is closed now, thanks to all who entered!!

This year it actually occurred to me more than a week in advance that oh yeah…..my blogiversary is coming up and I should do something about that! 2 years! To commemorate this auspicious occasion I’ve gathered up lovely prizes from lovely companies. While I do like receiving presents, I love giving presents away even more, and picking out things to included here was way too much fun.

6 prizes…..means 6 winners!

All of these items are either my personal favorites, or brands I fully support and approve of. The contest starts today, June 17th and entries will be accepted until midnight on July 1st. Winners will be notified on July 4th.

Kink Academy

Princess Kali is the beauty and brains behind Kink Academy, a sex education site I love and direct all kinky people to. If you want to read more about what her site has to offer, I did review it last year and you can read that here. A membership to Kink Academy normally costs $9.95 a month which is a really damn good deal for all the new content that gets uploaded every month, and all the existing content. One lucky winner will get a full 1-year membership to the Kink Academy, thanks to Princess Kali.


Shevibe.com generously has donated my Holy Grail sex toy, the Njoy Pure Wand. Of all of my sex toys, I love this one best, and I hope some lucky winner will too. (winner should be based in the US, UK or CA)


Fascinations has something for the boys – not just a Fleshlight, a Fleshlight Lady Vibro Touch! This one has a special inner texture and spots to tuck in 3 little bullet vibrators so you can have it vibrate or not. (winner should be based in the US or CA)


MyPleasure.com is letting me give away a beautiful Tantus dildo, the Twilight Vamp Dildo! Gorgeous, pale and sparkly silicone. (winner should be based in the US)


MauiKink.com, a great manufacturer of tons of gorgeous, handmade (in Maui!), kinky accoutrements and bondage rope is donating not 0nly a beautiful “frat” style Mahogany and Koa wood paddle, but also (2) 6MM 15ft lengths of Natural Romanian Hemp Rope.

Good Vibrations

Good Vibrations is giving one winner the Wahl 2-Speed massager, which recently dethroned the Hitachi for me. Even though they’re not created equal, I think the vibrations are superior. I hope you agree! (winner should be based in the US)

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Please read the rules and the correct way to enter for all. It’s really important! With so many entries, I won’t be able to correct if you don’t follow it, and if you tweet without commenting, it won’t count. If you have any questions on how to enter, please email me first.

There are three ways to enter – be sure to carefully read this, as incorrect entries won’t be counted. These three methods allow for entries by even people who (gasp!) don’t Twitter! So if you don’t blog, don’t Twitter, no worries! There’s still a way for you to get entries.

ETA: There seems to be confusion on the entries, so I’m going to clarify some

#1. Post about this on your blog.

The main portion that needs to be in your blog post is the list of prizes (the links must be active & working properly) – you can find exactly what you’re required to post in the html code box below here (just copy/paste it into your blogging software). You can write whatever else you want to in addition to what’s mandatory.

This method gets you 10 entries (1 blog post = 10 entries). For each entry, you must leave a comment here and state which prize(s) you want to win (prize name please!), including a link to your post about the contest. You can make all your 10 entries for the same prize or split them up. But you have to leave 10 comments and each comment is one entry for one prize. You can’t just say “all of them!” in one comment ;)

Again: 10 entries means you comment 10 times. Each comment you can only list one prize, but you must list a prize. You can split up the 10 entries for various prizes, they don’t all have to be the same.

Also, please note that your blog cannot be locked/private in order to enter using this method.

Dangerous Lilly is having a contest to mark the 2nd anniversary of her blog and has 6 prizes to give away! Check out the original contest post on her site to find out how you can enter, too.

The Prizes and Sponsors:

Kink Academy

One lucky winner will get a full 1-year membership to the Kink Academy, thanks to Princess Kali. A membership to Kink Academy normally costs $9.95 a month which is a really damn good deal for all the new content that gets uploaded every month, and all the existing content.


Shevibe.com generously has donated Lilly’s Holy Grail sex toy, the Njoy Pure Wand.


Fascinations has something for the boys – not just a Fleshlight, a Fleshlight Lady Vibro Touch! This one has a special inner texture and spots to tuck in 3 little bullet vibrators so you can have it vibrate if you want.


MyPleasure.com has donated a beautiful Tantus dildo, the Twilight Vamp Dildo! Gorgeous, pale and sparkly silicone.


MauiKink.com, a great manufacturer of tons of gorgeous, handmade (in Maui!), kinky accoutrements and bondage rope is donating not 0nly a beautiful “frat” style Mahogany and Koa wood paddle, but also (2) 6MM 15ft lengths of Natural Romanian Hemp Rope.

Good Vibrations

Good Vibrations is giving one winner the Wahl 2-Speed massager, a powerhouse external vibrator.

#2. Tweet about it!

You must include a link to the contest (link here) post, my twitter account (@dangerouslilly), the twitter account for the prize you’re entering to win (see below) and the name of the prize.

Ex.: I’m entering to win an Njoy Pure Wand from @shevibe and @dangerouslilly http://bit.ly/bw2vr0

(psst: Note that “Lilly” has 3 L’s. If you misspell my twitter name, your entry won’t count)

You may tweet an entry only once per day (total tweets, not per prize), with a maximum of 6 total tweet-entries. Comment here with the link directly to your tweet, and the name of the prize you’re entering to win. If your account is locked, you’ll have to let me follow you to verify your contest entry. You must comment here once for every Tweet you did, with a link to it and the name of the (one) prize you’re entering to win. You can pick multiple prizes for your 6 entries, they don’t all have to be the same.

6 tweets total, 6 comments total = 6 entries

@Shevibe (Njoy Pure Wand)
@KinkAcademy (1 year membership)
@GoodVibesSF (Wahl Massager)
@FascinationsFun (Fleshlight Lady Vibro)
@MauiKink (Frat Paddle and Hemp Bondage Rope)
@My_Pleasure (Twilight Vamp dildo)

#3. Submit a post of mine to Digg / Delicious / Mixx / StumbleUpon

Good posts to submit are usually the sex toy reviews; my ramblings and rants probably not so much, lol. Please put in (nsfw) if you’re able to, to avoid offending/pissing off people who need that clarification for whatever reason. You can submit up to 5 posts of mine for 5 entries; you’ll need to comment here with a link that’ll show your valid entry (make sure the link works!) – if it’s necessary to tell me your username so that I can verify you did submit and you’d like to keep that username private, please add in: “(private)” next to your name in the comment box for this post. That way it’ll get held for moderation, I can verify and then remove your username and such before posting the comment for the entry.

Again: Please comment once per entry, total of 5 comments/entries.

If you have any questions or need clarification, please feel free to email me (dangerouslilly@gmail) but please do not comment anything other than contest entries here!

Sep 012009

“I SQUIRTED!!!!!!!!! HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!!!!!!!”

I’ve only squirted with one toy, only one.

“The final frenzied build-up took a good minute or two…..this was truly a roller-coaster ride and the climb up to the top was better than most orgasms felt as I was coming. Yes, that good. When I felt orgasm approaching I pushed a bit, like I’ve read to do, and the orgasm was literally the strongest I’ve had on my own in a long LONG while. I curled into myself, holding my breath while my mouth gaped open in a silent scream. Between the strong orgasm and how hard I was pushing, I eventually pushed the damn thing out of me (not easy to do given the weight and large ball).  And it was different, in a good way. I managed to have a simultaneous orgasm from both my clit and my G-spot. The inundation of extreme pleasure didn’t stop until I let go of the toys.”

Only one sex toy gives me strong orgasms, multiple orgasms, “no way I won’t come” orgasms when all else seems to fail. If I had to own just one toy I would choose this one. Yes, even over a vibrating toy.


It’s such a great sex toy that I’m  not alone in loving it, it won an award!

If I could, I’d make this play the “ahhhhh!!” angels singing midi to further
drive home the fact that the Njoy Pure Wand is THAT FRIGGIN AWESOME


I am having a contest and I am giving away one Njoy Pure Wand, courtesy of EdenFantasys.com. It’s a simple contest, really. Three ways to enter into the random drawing. One for bloggers, one for commenters who are not bloggers, and one for anybody with a Twitter account.

To be clear, you can have two entries into this contest: Your blog post OR your comment about the perfect sex toy design, plus Twitter.

Entry Method One: For Bloggers:

Post the following on your blog, including the links and the photo. I need you to then come here and comment to tell me that you entered, and include the link to your post in your comment. Repost everything between the lines! If you’re reposting this to a tumblr, please make sure that the embedded links carry over.


Lilly, of DangerousLilly.com, is giving away an Njoy Pure Wand courtesy of EdenFantasys! The Pure Wand is a high-quality stainless steel double-ended dildo for either G-spot stimulation or prostate stimulation. It is 24 ounces of solid medical grade stainless steel, and polished to a mirror shine. Lilly loves her Pure Wand and wants to spread the love to one lucky winner!

To enter the contest just visit her blog to find out the rules and entry methods. You can enter even if you don’t have a blog, it’s easy! The contest deadline is September 16th, 2009, at Midnight Eastern Standard Time.


Entry Method Two: For Non Bloggers:

Leave me a comment on this post and tell me the design the perfect sex toy for you, if a sex toy manufacturer gave you complete design control! Tell me the size, the color and shape, if it vibrates or not, or simply tell me how you would change a toy that’s already on the market that you almost love and how you would make it perfect.


Entry Method Three: For Twitterers:

All you have to do is tweet this ONCE and only once – not once a day, just one time between now and the contest deadline. I’ll find all the entries by searching for the hashtag; however if your Twitter updates are locked (protected) and I do not follow you, you’ll need to comment here with a link directly to your contest entry tweet and I will request to follow you so that I can verify your entry.

Tweet this:

Win an Njoy Pure Wand from @Dangerous_Lilly – contest rules here: http://bit.ly/3gcPuf Ends 9-16-09 @ 12am EST #DangerousLillyPureWand

UPDATE: Restating this because it needs to be said again: If I didn’t already follow you and your tweets are locked, please include a link to the tweet. For some reason if you tweet it first and then I request to follow, it doesn’t show up in my “Mentions” column. By the time I might see your comment here telling me about it, it could be hours later (and many tweets later on your part).

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September 16th (a Wednesday), 2009 at Midnight EST

Who is eligible:


It’s really important to give a valid email address when you’re filling out the comment form here (emails are only seen by me). I’ll notify the winner via email or DM through Twitter. You’ll have 5 days to get back to me so that I know you’re there, before I pick a new winner. I’ll then pass your email address to my contact at Edenfantsys and you will give them your mailing address.


Perhaps someday if every person owns an Njoy Pure Wand, we will achieve world peace :)



Aug 182009

My good friend Bad Bad Girl is having a monumental contest going on right now, in fact there’s more than one! I’m mainly doing this for the Grand Fucking Prize, to get the list of giveaway items one item bigger. How does this work? How can you enter this yourself? All you have to do is post something on your blog similar to this, and make a wishlist at ExtremeRestraints.com. Post your wishlist in said post, and let BBG know about it. For every person, up to 100, that enters, another prize is added on. Below is the full list. Prize #100 is a fucking machine!! Holy crap! Can you tell how much she is loved, given the magnitude of this contest?? I think it’s the biggest and best giveaway that any sex blogger has been able to do.

While some of the stuff on the prize list doesn’t interest me at this time in my life since I’ve decided to walk away from many BDSM things for awhile, I want whoever wins this prize to get a lot of great stuff! I created my little wishlist over there, and here’s my items. I  have to admit to being a bit of a wuss when it comes to many items that ER carries, so my list right now is small. When I go to physical therapy for my back issues, they do electro-stim on me at the end. After seeing these stim kits meant for sexual purposes and knowing how it feels on my back….well, I’m very intrigued by it and hope to try this someday.

Electro Vaginal Shield Electro Vaginal Shield
Folsom PSG-202 Box Folsom PSG-202 Box
Zeus Deluxe Digital Power Box Zeus Deluxe Digital Power Box
The Plus-Size Crotchless Corset Strap-On The Plus-Size Crotchless Corset Strap-On
Clitoris Enhancer Clit Pump Kit Clitoris Enhancer Clit Pump Kit

Here’s what you can win as the entries increase:
(with mine we’re up to the Sunset Plug)

Sign-ups Item Retail


Electrogasm $45.00


Ratan Cane $11.50


Trinity Silicone Butt Plug Kit $38.00


Trinity Pink Waterproof Rabbit $18.95


Orgasmic Vibrating Cock Ring $8.00


Luv Balls $26.00


The Sunset Plug $17.99


Strict Leather Flogger $165.00


Clit Enhance Pump Kit $114.00


Vibrating Silver Bullet $8.50


Vibrating Remote Control 7 speed egg $47.95


Leather Blindfold with Velcro Closure $16.50


Strict Leather Locking Thigh Cuffs $76.00


Trinity 7 Speed Vibrating Silicon Butt Plug $28.95


Delux Digital Power Box $130.00


Trinity Pocket Rocket Massager $14.00


Trinity Heart Throb Glass Dildo $28.00


The Love Pacifier $14.99


Strict Leather 4 Foot Leash $18.00


Vibrating Lipstick $26.00


Hitachi Magic Wand $49.95


Ball Gag Training System $15.00


Trinity Rosebud G Vibrator $22.50


Strict Leather Punishment Strap $37.50


Bondage Tape $7.95


Strict Leather Studded Paddle $48.00


Clit Clamp with Bell $10.00


Strict Leather Low Rise Leather Collar $48.00


The Love Seat $99.95


Premium Bondage Rope Nylon 10ft $12.00


Wartenburg Wheel $9.50


The Anal Hook $78.95


Tower of Pain $88.00


Strict Leather Forced Orgasm Belt $78.00


The Curvy Steel Dildo $95.00


The Power Box Fucking Machine $449.00
Sep 302008

You may, or may not, have noticed lately a culling in my public blogroll. It is with caution that I tread on this subject, but I am not, by far, the first to speak of it. Sage. Rage. Naughty Secretary. Just a few.
They all pick at different aspects, some focusing on responses to the comments left on the blogs they read, some on the lack of comments they receive on their own blog.

There are two edges to this sword – I write for myself, I write for the world. While I do write for myself, this blog is quite cathartic, it is aided by the fact that I have a small audience as a sounding board. A set of people who don’t judge on petty things like the more closed-minded folks that surround me in daily life. So while I would continue on writing, I value and appreciate the comments I get both publicly on the blog and privately via email. It is a comfort to know that there are others in my boat, in my corner, more than just my partner who sits beside me here (hello, dear). It is an even larger comfort to have made friends with some of the shadowed audience. So, I think, how rude it would be of me not to acknowledge your words when you comment. In real life, do you stare blankly at someone who pays you a compliment? No. You would either never get it again, or get smacked upside the head.

I cannot complain at ALL about the comments I receive. Yes, I see other bloggers get more. So what? It’s not a popularity contest. But, that’s not my point. I suppose part of it is….if you see that I make an effort on your blog, and I am on your public blogroll….well, whyever am I on it if you don’t read it?

Mostly, I’ve removed people from the blogroll who rarely or never reply to comments, or to mine specifically, and who couldn’t give a flying fuck about me and my little square in the webiverse. I don’t mind, no skin off my nose so to speak. I’ll still read it in my feedreader because I do enjoy the blogs, but I won’t make the effort anymore to comment or be a presence. Basically, ignore me and I’ll go away. There are one or two I’m still figuring out. They reply to my comments in a polite manner, but don’t seem to welcome me there. So if I’m not welcome…..then just don’t say a darn thing, I guess.

I’ve recently been hunting for new reads, both sex blogs and well…..non, lol. And if I like something, I comment. That’s my nature. That’s half the point. If they never respond…..I’m not sure they’re worth the effort of faithfully reading.


New subject.

The We-Vibe contest winner is:   Coy Pink, with this entry:

http://www.redtube.com/1289 (red tube link, as some reported the original link giving issues)

http://video.megarotic.com/?v=X3VTEATM (original link)


Well, most importantly, it was believably real. Decent quality (security cams are pretty poor quality, but offer great views), good length, good sex (despite the dude’s blinding white tan lines). You felt like you were peeping along with Tom who was peekin out his window. I’m not sure I understand his point of zooming in on the crap in the yard tho….meh, oh well.

The other entries were all great too! Panthera‘s parking lot cam was decent, although that kid needs a few lessons in sex. My favorite part was the truck that stopped to watch his white lil ass bang his gf. Jobthingy‘s entry was hot sex, albeit staged (by at least part of the couple, even if the female didn’t know she was being filmed). Some more parking garage antics occured, sadly cut short. A romp in the woods was filmed but the plausibility seemed iffy….the forest is a noisy place, all leaves and crackly branches underfoot….I find it hard to believe that couple didn’t know they were being filmed, ya know? Elevator sex was HOT, but short and grainy. We had to make the line in the sand somewhere, ya know?

Hey, for such an expensive toy, we can be picky about our porno :P

Thanks to all who entered, it was great fun :)

Sep 202008

You know what really sucks about internet friends? They could have something serious happen tomorrow and I’d likely never know. And vice versa. I know Deviant Little Devil was having some health problems recently, and suddenly…I’ve heard nothing from him in days which is unusual. I have quite a few people I consider to be good friends but their family doesn’t know of their online world…and so I’d never know what happened. It’s a sobering thought.

I don’t have much to say this week, I guess.


One thing is a reminder to go look for links and enter in the contest to win a We-Vibe! It’s not that hard, and you have plenty of time to go do it. Now git!


I’m not sure if you were just mezzed by the tits on Thursday or what ;) but I’ll mention again to please check out the jewelry page I have over there in the sidebar. I have a ton more stuff, I just need to figure out a way to list it all since the web site will be taken down really soon.


I’m just thinking of you….really! So that I don’t subject my ranting and craziness on those expecting sexiness, and because I have an opinionated big mouth, I started a side blog. Every post will feature a lolcat :)  I’ll most likely be posting every Monday and Thursday over there.


Speaking of my rants…one thing I love about my stat counter is that I can see what Google search terms led people here. Sometimes they’re valid, like looking for a review on a toy. Other times it’s ridiculous sex crap, and sometimes…they came here and got a LOT more than they bargained for. Now, granted, I’m on the very last page so this person had to be desperate, but someone found me by searching for the Pasta N’ More. hehehehe imagine the shock they got!

That’s it. I’m boring this week. Next week I’ll review my dildo from Hans Hardwood Dildos, and I hope I’ll have a new fiction story to post.