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Wanton Wednesday, The Anniversary Edition

2 years ago I started my own little weekly sexy photos-n-more meme for many reasons but mostly because I didn’t feel welcome elsewhere. If others wanted to join in my slightly-more-risque version then so be it! It started off as a rebel yell which grew into a quiet, small group which then grew into a something a little bit more substantial. While I haven’t personally participated most weeks lately, I still enjoy hosting the space for others. We’re not a great big group but I have to admit that I prefer it that way. I try my best to foster the “community participation” aspect that some felt was lacking from HNT where there would be 50-some players but only breadcrumbs from a dozen (unless you were a thin, conventionally beautiful woman posing in artistic provocative shots). While I know that not every player comments on every post, every week, I still hope that the players feel that it is a good community. We’re not the only ones out there, though, and likely not the most popular. But I still keep it the old gal kicking.

Since I’m practically immobile from a serious of unfortunate events culminating in back spasms so severe I couldn’t even get out of bed or walk for a good part of this last week, instead of plying you with something new I will re-post my very first Wanton Wednesday contribution. In two weeks though, for the 100th edition of Wanton Wednesday, you will indeed see something sparkly and new.

 

 

See who else is playing along!

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WantonWednesday: Mardi Gras Time!

 

Now then, where’s my beads????

I’ve never gotten any Mardi Gras beads but I think I’d like the pretty metallic-y ones the best!

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Baby, It’s Cold Outside (But Just for Today)

Thankfully we’ve had a pretty mild winter; I think last year there was enough snow for two seasons!

But it has snowed once or twice, and yeah it was pretty chilly.

 

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Wanton Wednesday: Peek-a-boo(b)!

Trying my hand at these animated gifs has given me a little motivation to actually participate in Wanton Wednesday more often. It feels less like “Here is shot # 147 of my tits” and more like something new and creative. Now that I’ve learned how to do it from Photoshop rather than a random site I can get even more creative, but having a different speed on each frame. Any suggestions for future ones?

 

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A very animated Wanton Wednesday

I’m posting this early because tomorrow is the SOPA Blackout and all my sites are participating with the help of a WordPress SOPA plugin.

I’m a huge fan of Tumblr porn, I’ll admit. Gifs, reblogged pics videos….I follow people who reblog “professional” stuff and post their own yummy goodness. So today, I’m contributing in the tradition of the Animated Gif!

 

 

Wanton “Wedneday” will be extended this week because of the SOPA Blackout, however you’ll still be able to access the site – but check back on Thursday to make sure you catch ALL the Wanton players!

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Ugly on the Inside

Most people are not graced with the symmetrical beauty that is deemed “perfect”. Many people do not have what is considered by fashion to be a “perfect” body – i.e. no excess fat, certainly no rolls or pudges, no stretch marks, skin that defies gravity, etc.

But are most people ugly?

No.

I will not sit here and claim to be a saint and say that I never ever make poor comments about a person’s clothing/body/whatever. Sometimes I do. I think most of us do. But when you do it all the time and out loud? I don’t care what you look like. I don’t care if you are Angelina fuckin Jolie’s twin sister. You are ugly. A lot of people don’t know the reasons why I started Wanton Wednesday. One of the reasons was that I didn’t care for the attitude the creator took against “sex bloggers” (an attitude which he has spread to others); I didn’t care for the attitudes of many of the bloggers who participated in HNT, either. Is Wanton Wednesday then the “misfits” version? I don’t know. I don’t care. I sure as fuck am not going to win any beauty contests and I will fully agree that many people do not find fat women attractive on the outside. You know what….you do your thing, I’ll do mine, and if you’re going to judge me or other people who could very well be the most awesome somebody you might ever meet, just on their looks? You’re not a person I want to know.

I visited the blog of someone and really…I should have known better. I already know what kind of person she is. Somehow she’s able to spout off shit like this and get pats on the fuckin back. Glad I don’t know any of the people who were commenting, either.

I don’t want to read anymore posts from women pushing 40 who go out and get liquored up.  I outgrew that before I was 20.  Grow up.  I don’t want to read anymore posts from so called sex bloggers.  The bulk of them are people sneaking around behind someone else’s back.  Grow a pair and get out, or work on what is there.  I don’t want to watch people who’s own marriage is such a joke give marital advice to someone else!  One day I just realized how small and stupid so much of this is.  People posting photos of themselves, so someone else will say how hot they are.  Because, let’s be honest here.  No one is going to say…”Sugar, you have cankles, or those boots you think are so naughty make your pudgy calves look even fatter.”  No one is going to say, please stop showing us your saggy boobs.  It’s like a competition to see how many compliments they can get.  It’s mind numbing and shallow.  There are a handful who actually do it well, and look good doing it.  But the bulk of them……sheesh.

No, I’m not linking to blogger and I probably won’t tell you if you ask – her identity isn’t the point and most likely you don’t know her anyways (one of you will). She is ugly on the inside. I do not want to associate with her or people like her and I hope to hell that no one who participates in WW is anything like her. In her posts she may or may not be referring to people I’m friends with or hell, even me for that matter (” Women who’s nipples look like they fed an entire third world country should NAWT be showing them off on the internet.” or ” At one point I didn’t know where my place was in blogland. I wasn’t a Mommy blogger. I did NAWT want to be one of the crazy sex bloggers.” could easily apply to me, lol).

I don’t care what you look like. I care what is INSIDE OF YOU. I want friends surrounding me who are beautiful on the inside, so beautiful that they outshine others. Many of the people I consider a friend would fit into that. I am not a happy go lucky person – I can be grumpy and cranky and get easily disappointed/upset at the shittiness of peers. But I do know one thing. I am NOT ugly inside. I won’t tolerate anyone who is, anymore. Excuse me while I go fuckin belt out “Don’t Rain on My Parade” or something.

To my friends, to my loyal readers, to my Wanton Wednesday group:

You are beautiful no matter what they say
Words can’t bring you down
You are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can’t bring you down
Don’t you bring me down today…

No matter what we do
No matter what we say
We’re the song inside the tune
Full of beautiful mistakes

And everywhere we go
The sun will always shine
And tomorrow we might wake on the other side
All the other times

We are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can’t bring us down

~”Beautiful”, Christina Aguilera

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