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I wonder how many people have the cohones to truthfully respond to this question?

I will allow you to be anonymous and won’t spill the beans if I know who you are, I promise ;)

My confession:

A bedpost. Oh I know what you’re thinking. Like this, right? No no. no. The one in question was more like this. Yes it was long, and I yanked it off the bed. Yes I was desperate for anything that had a chance at helping me orgasm since I had nothing that could vibrate.

Why was it dumb?

1. Because it was probably dusted at some point using a chemical spray, like Pledge.

2. The accidental ramming of my cervix resulted in an hour or two of moderate cramping and spotting later on.

  • http://cyberlizard.com CyberLizard

    Back in my youth I used Suave Strawberry Essence shampoo to lube my penis. At the time I hadn’t learned to masturbate without any lubrication and, like you, was desperate to get off. Didn’t wash it all off thoroughly, though. Spent the next week with extremely painful dried, cracked skin on my penis. NOT. FUN.

  • Sex Toy Sarah

    The handle of a saucepan.

    Why was it stupid to use this as an anal sex toy? Because it had broken off the saucepan and there was sharp metal on one end and nothing to stop the entire thing getting sucked in had I loosened my grip. Luckily I’ve learned my lesson since then :P

    The first time I ever tried anal play too!

    ~Sadly it’s how many start out, I think. Too shy/unsure to purchase an actual anal play sex toy.

  • Anon

    When I was a young man I would use a vacuum cleaner. The hose end, and put my cock up in it. It ultimately worked but some times was painful because I would be hard and swell and was thicker that the inside diameter of the hose.

  • Ms.Inconspicuous

    A vacuum cleaner… Only it doesn’t work the same way for girls as it would for guys… The stimulation made me pee (pee, yes, pee, not squirt) all over the floor. Whoops.

    ~ I can’t say that this every occurred to me. Nor can I imagine how it was done…..just suction?

  • http://mysemicharmedlife.com Simone

    I’ve used a mechanical pencil, a pen, an electric toothbrush (Sonicare, to be exact).

    I was a silly, ignorant girl. hehe

    ~Oh I did the electric toothbrush for a good few months. It was technically I think my first vibrator. I’m sure it wasn’t actually the cleanest thing I could be using…..I was clueless.

  • KaziGrrl

    A turkey baster, during an online session.

    I ended up bleeding all over it, which ended the session damn quick!! ruined the baster too…

    ~ouch….I can imagine that it was thin enough to get into your cervix….ouch ouch…

  • http://www.blacksilk.wordpress.com Blacksilk

    I’m sure I’ve done a bunch of stupid ones in my younger days (and maybe even slightly older days), but probably the stupidest three are below:

    1) Screwdriver handle – it was a slightly bulbous one rather than the usual kind
    2) Cork-stoppered glass bottle for some kind of bubble bath or something – a long, thin triangular pyramidal one which was an “I don’t know you” birthday/Xmas gift
    3) The handle of a plastic Hallowe’en devil pitchfork… which I still have in my house

    The most dumb of these being that I put potentially fragile glass up me and that the end of the pitchfork was basically a plastic tube with not-so smooth edges. Not safe, not clever.

    Luckily at the time I hadn’t really worked out masturbation properly yet and was mostly experimenting with gently fucking myself with whatever seemed about the right shape. I was hugely curious and also massively ashamed during this period of my life (in a lovely binge/purge cycle like my early porn habits) and was super keen to figure out how sex and wanking worked.

    It didn’t really work, but I guess I did learn a bit about my genitals, so yay. Ha, now wondering if I’ve been *too* honest! :P

    ~ I think most people have done this stuff, but just won’t admit it ;)

  • http://bastardconfessions.blogspot.com Ethan Lambert

    Margarine (which was just gross, not really dumb)… St. Ives Apricot Scrub (with the little grainy exfoliating bits), which hurt like a MoFo… and when I was a very young man exploring my sexuality and questioning my orientation, there was a VERY ill-conceived encounter with a plunger handle :-/

    ~If you were questioning your sexuality that’s one thing, but your wording leads me to believe that you questioned it because you enjoyed anal penetration? Which, enjoying prostate/anal penetration/vibration/etc has absolutely nothing to do with your orientation.

  • Maria

    Ah, I must admit I still use stupid things every one in a while… The dumbest/most embarrassing though? I used a can of hair moose..I did put a condom on it to keep the germs out but still… dumb.

  • missystark

    cologne bottle…carrots…the list is embarrassing and endless…cucumber, oh yes and of course a frozen hotdog(hebrew national)

    ~ LOL it’s gotta be Hebrew National for masturbation?

  • http://exquisitesensations.blogspot.com Lex

    An egg. I once took a hard boiled egg and was having a great time, but I guess as I got more aroused my PC muscles sucked it deeper inside of me and it became temporarily ‘stuck’. I couldn’t push it out, couldn’t feel it when I reached in because it was too deep. I was in a panic and finally after a bit I did manage to push it out but I was terrified until then, thinking of how I would explain that to a doctor…

    ~ holy crap, a lot of people use food…..

  • http://bastardconfessions.blogspot.com Ethan Lambert

    A good point, and perhaps my initial comment was poorly worded. I was already questioning my orientation due to other factors; that’s just the frame of mind that initially got me open enough to explore anal penetration to begin with.

    It’s very true that the correlation between male anal penetration and orientation is purely stereotypical. I meant to imply that I experimented with anal because I was questioning my orientation, and it never dawned on me that I might like it until my orientation came into question. I did not question my orientation just because I was curious about receiving anal.

  • http://bastardconfessions.blogspot.com Ethan Lambert

    By the way, if I make sure and attribute/link the question to your blog and this post specifically, would it be alright if I borrowed this question?

  • http://toodle-oo--ass.blogspot.com/ SaintC

    An orange. I know. I was insane at the time and there were no melons around.

    Why was it dumb: orange juice is not friendly to sensitive skin.

    ~ No shit it’s not. You’re not serious, are you?? Oh wait. It occurred to me just this second that you didn’t mean that you inserted the orange up your ass. Ok. Slightly less stupid.

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous purely because I don’t want my parents finding this.

    When I was 7 I discovered my mother’s Wahl-like vibrator and thought I’d invented that use for it. I stole it from her when I was 9 and realized years later she probably used it for the same thing. She stole it back from me when I turned 18.
    I also used my dad’s pager and one of those squiggly vibrating

  • Anonymous

    Sorry cellphone crapped out
    pens. I’d use anything that vibrated basically.
    When I was 16 I used one of those awful vibrating cucumbers sold at Spencers and got yeast infection

    ~ oh no! I’m not sure what’s more disturbing, a vibrating cucumber, or that it gave you a yeast infection. vibrating pens? huh. never heard of such a thing!

  • http://mydissolutelife.blogspot.com N.

    Vicks Vaporub. It was awesome for the first couple of minutes, but then, with a force that was devastating, it became first unpleasant, then painful, and then excruciating. Over approximately 15 seconds, it spanned that trajectory.