But the Porn Star told me to!
Porn stars get paid to have sex. We all (should) know this. Anything they do that you see, they are most likely getting paid for it. Which is fine. I have no issue with...
Monthly Archive: October 2010
Review: Tenga Flip Hole Masturbator (Black)
For some reason, this review was kinda hard to write. And oddly, that’s not because the Tenga Flip Hole Black is mediocre or bad. In fact, my husband loves. Hell, I love it. I...
Safety Has a Price
….and it’s not cheap. Ever since I started my job in the city I’ve had to deal with terrible parking. Be it far away or expensive or in a shady area or a combination...
The Value of the Anonymous Blogger
In the last few weeks I personally have been feeling like many readers (and “out” bloggers, and even some other not-out-yet-pompous bloggers) potentially feel like anonymous sex bloggers lack merit, or value, or validity....
Why Sex Education is So Important
At 15, I was still scared of boys, sort of. Sure I’d “date” them, and yeah I’d make out with them, but everything else? Terrified. It was because I knew next to nothing about...
We should all start our own company
Don’t you think that sex toy reviewers could create, quite possibly, the world’s best sex toys? This thought came to me the other day when lamenting both “premium” vibrators and how they still lack...
Carnivals, Raffles, Swag, Oh My!
On October 20th, I’ll be contributing my post for the Scarleteen 2011 Fund Raiser and Blog Carnival. The Carnival is meant to get maximum exposure to as many people about Scarleteen – what it...
Blogger Education?
Due to a number of factors, the end of last week I decided to close down the Co-op. I haven’t deleted it, just “disabled” it. The fact that no one noticed/spoke up reinforced the...
National Coming Out Day
Today (tomorrow as I write this in the throes of more sleeplessness on Sunday, actually) is National Coming Out Day. A day where some really brave and true individuals all over the country are...
Ask Lilly: How to Buy Sex Toys Online
Recently I had someone ask how a certain sex toy retailer shipped their toys to me; if it was safe, would her roommates know what was in the box, etc. Purchasing sex toys is...
Jaded
You’ve got your mama’s style but you’re yesterday’s child to me So Jaded You think that’s where it’s at but is that where it’s supposed to be? You’re gettin’ it all over me Jaded...
Yes, Jelly Sex Toys can be Dangerous
Author’s Note: Yes this is an older post, but I update it with new information when I can. The information contained here is only the start and if you are curious, if you have...
Something for Nothing
Not too long ago I had to deal with a somewhat-new e[lust] participant who seemed to be “innocently” doing his best to just barely follow the posted rules of e[lust]. When I first created...
All of my contest luck was saved for right now
Since I’ve started blogging, I’ve entered numerous little contests and giveaways. Never won. I even attended 2 NYSexBloggerCalendar parties, purchased yards of raffle tickets, and never won. In fact, I think I’ve entered 4...
Machine Guns
As bloggers, particularly bloggers of “controversial” topics such as sex, activism and hell even just baring our nudity – we are vulnerable. To assholes, to stalkers, to bullies. To jealous, butt-hurt, miserable souls who...
