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Switching Teams or Playing Both Sides?

Disappointed with the results I’ve been getting from local men on Craigslist I decided to visit the other side for a bit and see what I can catch.

I answered a few W4W ads and posted one of my own. We shall see…..

I must admit, I’ve never truly flirted much with another woman. Perhaps a bit online, but never in person. My previous encounters just…happened. One was part of a threesome. I tend to go through phases as to which gender I sexually prefer, and I seem to have been in the men’s camp for quite some time.

Speaking of tits….. ;)

As soon as this week’s fresh crop of tits are posted, be sure to check them out. I submitted a previously-unseen pic from the collar-and-leash series:

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Still still searching…(and more randomness)

A few weeks ago I had a few prospects from my craigslist ad, all of which are now off the map. Last week I updated you guys on the status of them and introduced a 4th candidate.

Well, HotBoy#2, aka PiercedTongueGuy, didn’t work out. I’m really not sure why, perhaps his embarrassment at the brevity of our oral encounter got the better of him. It didn’t bother me, but alas. It’s not worth pushing for.

HotBoy#1 I did go out with, and that died right there. He is a salesman by day and it came through too much on our date. I can’t figure out why he wanted me so badly, but he just tried too hard. There were a few other reasons why I turned him down but I don’t want to badmouth a guy on here (despite the interesting offer of an orgasm in the mens room, I just couldn’t get into it, even tho bar-bathroom sex is up on my public-sex list).

The new contender I mentioned last week, the one who’s “not my typical type” – fuck that. I don’t have a type anymore. Thats a good thing ;) He continues to do so well in just online conversations, I am looking forward to meeting him in person soon. I’ve been sick with a bad headcold all week and I am just now getting over it. Hey, C, wanna go out this week? Email me, perhaps we can meetup for a drink or ….. something…. ;)

I keep posting CL ads, hoping to find a good FWB that lives really close by. Not only am I not happy with the results, but my goddamn ad on CL keeps getting flagged no matter what I do. There are so many rampart flagtards there that think 75% of the women posting are botters for sex sites, that it gets flagged! I mean really, my B&W shots that I’ve put up on this blog are certianly not “model” quality. My recent ad has no pictures, so I’m not getting as many responses.(I thought perhaps no pictures would keep it up longer) Men here don’t have the balls to put their own pic up in their ad, so trolling the M4W section is pointless.

I am back “home” with my mother this weekend. Oh joy, oh rapture, oh joy. It is nothing but one long headache. I was in the lighting store with her today, trying to figure out how to subtly pick up the guy who was helping us out. I have turned into a scoper! Every decent looking man I cross paths with now, I imagine him naked! Do you know how hard it is to talk to your mother about what is new and interesting in your life?? My mother and I have never been close, and she certainly would not approve or or understand anything that I’m doing right now.

I have a question for you, readers. Should I continue on with my erotic fiction posts? I’ve done 2 stories now, broken down into 2 parts each. I don’t get as many comments on them, but I happen to think they’re good. (are they?) Should I continue on with the erotica, perhaps one a week? You can comment anonymously if you wish on this matter, I’ll never know who you are.

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Still searching

Despite the hotness of my morning tryst with X, I don’t think it’s going to work out with him. I put up another ad on Craigslist to find a new toy.
Results are much better this time around, and now I find myself with a few choices; more than 1 truly intrigues me and has the looks to follow through with the intrigue.

Hot Boy #1 actually responded to my post looking for the jogger, but he’s not the jogger. He is, however, a potential.
Hot Boy #2 has another side of intrigue to him, I may be meeting him for an innocent drink shortly. I’ve always wondered about pierced tongues…
Hot Boy #3…..his words don’t have the intrigue of the other two, his woo of me is something much more shallow…his body. But oh I would feel like I’m robbing the cradle…

X isn’t totally out of the running, but he’s not in first place.

I need someone local to satisfy the cravings brought about by my online boys who are too far away to do anything with. Ah yes, I need to introduce you to R……

Me: I’m a bratty sub
Me: i test limits
R: that’ll leave as soon as I punish your cunt by bringing you near orgasm a few times and denying you

soon…..

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Random Late Night Ponderings

I’ve been tossing around the idea of putting up a Craigslist Missed Connections post for the jogger. I don’t want to -meet- him, just ask him what he saw…how much…etc.

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A fellow blogger posted somewhere musings on what we would do if anybody we knew in real life were to find our blog, or if there was a suspicion or danger of it. What would we do? What do we think might happen? I can’t say I want to think about what would happen if my family read about it. A friend saw my blog; I don’t know how much they read or anything (we didn’t discuss it) but I know they read it. And they’ve pretty much stopped speaking to me.

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Someone asked me recently why I have so much porn on my computer. (I have about 40 gigs worth of stuff I’ve downloaded) And now I know the reason. The first time I view a video, it’s like I’m spying. I’m seeing someone’s secret. It’s fresh and new and you don’t know what’s going to happen next. Future viewings…the secret is out. It’s no longer titillating. I keep them though in case others would like to peruse my library and borrow a book ;) And in the hopes that maybe in a few months that really hot scene will get to me again.

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Of all the sex toys I’ll be reviewing there is one that I will not be reviewing and I likely will never own (but hope to at least try someday) and that is a fucking machine. To be fucked by something that can go faster than any human is able to is arousing. Even more so, to be restrained and forcefully fucked by this machine and some of the time a big vibrator on my clit.

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I do not fit in with the traditional fetish/kink community it seems in that I’m not really and truly Dominant or submissive. I consider myself a switch because I like both sides of the coin. But I cannot just BE one or the other with someone. There has to be chemistry. If I am dominant or submissive with a person it is totally dependent on the vibe I get from them. I am not saying they dictate which I will be; but I cannot say before knowing someone that yes I top them or bottom to them. Just because I am speaking with someone who is only submissive, that does not mean I’ll be able to top them. I tend not to be into someone who identifies more as a “lifestyle” player. Let’s keep it to flirting and bedroom time, thank you. I don’t usually like truly submissive men. Nor do I usually like truly dominant men.
Lately I have been wanting to try the bottom/submissive side. Very occasionally I meet someone I think I could top, or who I want to top. Very rarely I meet someone I could see both sides happening with.
Although I am bisexual, I tend not to feel dominant or submissive to women. Cannot figure out why.
Hopefully a trip to a FLOG event with a certain couple I know and love will bring out some surprises for me and change my viewpoints a little.

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What This Woman Wants

I’m not sure if you all have read this, how long it has been circulating, and whatnot. I read a reposting of this on a social site I belong to. I, in turn, reposted it in my own journal and was inundated by some very uptight and defensive women complaining about it.

So I’m here today to share my particular thoughts on it. I won’t put up the whole thing, if you want to, you can go read it here.

I realize that there’s also a lot of women in kink who won’t feel this applies to them. For example, someone very dominant or very submissive. But as a switch exploring her submissive side, this all appeals to me.

When we get hot and heavy, please take charge. Please, please fuck me. Trust me, I’m not going to just lie still – I’ll get involved. But don’t make me force your hand into my panties. That makes me feel like a rapist. We’ve been kissing for a half hour and your hand keeps grazing my ass. That’s nice, but it’s time to move forward. Get on top of me. Don’t make me get on top right out of the gate and start bobbing up and down on your cock like I’m practicing some crazy new aerobic yoga because YOU won’t go down on me. Roll on top and start dry humping like a good boy should. Don’t gently suck my nipples and then pull back when I moan with pleasure. You being coy is totally not what I want.

Unfortunately for me I’ve been with a few guys who really should have read this beforehand. I was with a guy, in his bed, making out hot and heavy. Clothes were being removed, soon we were both down to underwear, my tits on display. I will give him credit, when I whispered “harder”, he did as told…and one cannot go assuming things like attention to the clit and nipples. However I did have to guide his hand downward finally (hey my hand went down all on its own and you enjoyed that thoroughly, what makes you think I don’t want reciprocation?) to which he replies “Oh I don’t have sex on the first date anymore.” Oh, nice. A. you could have mentioned that when conversation got intimate and raunchy online. 2. You could have mentioned that before we both got nearly naked and thoroughly worked up.

3. Most women like to be fucked, and fucked well. Yes, there are women out there who want to “make love” every time – sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of eye contact and loving kisses. Those women are not the majority. The majority like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. The majority like a good, solid jackhammering. A little roughness is nice. Do not pretend that you had no idea that some women like their hair pulled. Do not act shocked if she wants you to spank her (“Really? Spanking? Won’t it hurt?” – yes, it does. That’s the fucking point). We know you’ve read Stuff and Maxim, and that’s all those laddie mags talk about in their “How to Please Her” sections. Start with light, full handed smacks to the area of her ass that she sits on. Judge her response and continue on from there.

A few extra pointers. Hair pulling. I have told men that I like it. The only one who got it right, really, was the one to introduce it to me. The first time he pulled my hair while deeply kissing me it went straight to my cunt and I was immediately throbbing and wet, whimpering and moaning in the exquisite pleasurable pain. The place to grab is dead center nape of the neck, the last inch or two of hairline. Grab as close to the roots as possible. Even better, weave your fingers through her hair there and then grab. Sure, you can grab a ponytail and yank during doggystyle, but that elicits a sharper pain that begins to delve into more kink. The throb-inducing pressure/tug/dull pain is achieved as I mentioned.
The ass-smack…the only response I expect to hear from you when I tell you I like that it is a low, growling “good”.

Most women like dirty talk, in addition to the grunting. If you’d like to get some dirty talk going, ask her if she likes the way you fuck her. If she responds well, continue with something like, “I love fucking you. God, you look so fucking hot.” Is she still moaning in response? “Your tits are so beautiful.” Does that work? If she doesn’t respond well to the term “tits”, you might have to stop there. If she keeps moaning or responding, pass Go and collect $200.

Ok yes…basically this boils down to a combination of sexy ramblings and hot compliments. The bonus to starting things out in the online world? We already know what gets the other person off. Now you just have to have the balls to actually let those words fall off your lips.

Just LISTEN. When I tell you to suck my nipple harder, not lick it like a kitten, that’s great that you took it up a few notches. But when I then wince “ow” and make an attempt to pull back a little, unless this is a D/s session you really need to be pulling back and/or giving me that exquisite pain in shorter bursts.

You know what? I really do want to hear you tell me similar things, too. In one of the pictures I sent “M”, he described my expression as “come fuck me” eyes. At one point during our rendezvous I glanced up at him with that lust and it made him crazy.
Look at me again like that…yes…

And honey when I say “fuck me”, don’t you dare delay. At that point in the game I do not want a whole lot of pause going on. Again, this is all different in a good D/s session in which I have no control, but that’s all another matter, another day ;)

I’m no china doll…I won’t break.

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