Sep 30, 2008

Crash course in polite conversation

You may, or may not, have noticed lately a culling in my public blogroll. It is with caution that I tread on this subject, but I am not, by far, the first to speak of it. Sage. Rage. Naughty Secretary. Just a few.
They all pick at different aspects, some focusing on responses to the comments left on the blogs they read, some on the lack of comments they receive on their own blog.

There are two edges to this sword – I write for myself, I write for the world. While I do write for myself, this blog is quite cathartic, it is aided by the fact that I have a small audience as a sounding board. A set of people who don’t judge on petty things like the more closed-minded folks that surround me in daily life. So while I would continue on writing, I value and appreciate the comments I get both publicly on the blog and privately via email. It is a comfort to know that there are others in my boat, in my corner, more than just my partner who sits beside me here (hello, dear). It is an even larger comfort to have made friends with some of the shadowed audience. So, I think, how rude it would be of me not to acknowledge your words when you comment. In real life, do you stare blankly at someone who pays you a compliment? No. You would either never get it again, or get smacked upside the head.

I cannot complain at ALL about the comments I receive. Yes, I see other bloggers get more. So what? It’s not a popularity contest. But, that’s not my point. I suppose part of it is….if you see that I make an effort on your blog, and I am on your public blogroll….well, whyever am I on it if you don’t read it?

Mostly, I’ve removed people from the blogroll who rarely or never reply to comments, or to mine specifically, and who couldn’t give a flying fuck about me and my little square in the webiverse. I don’t mind, no skin off my nose so to speak. I’ll still read it in my feedreader because I do enjoy the blogs, but I won’t make the effort anymore to comment or be a presence. Basically, ignore me and I’ll go away. There are one or two I’m still figuring out. They reply to my comments in a polite manner, but don’t seem to welcome me there. So if I’m not welcome…..then just don’t say a darn thing, I guess.

I’ve recently been hunting for new reads, both sex blogs and well…..non, lol. And if I like something, I comment. That’s my nature. That’s half the point. If they never respond…..I’m not sure they’re worth the effort of faithfully reading.

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New subject.

The We-Vibe contest winner is: Coy Pink, with this entry:

http://www.redtube.com/1289 (red tube link, as some reported the original link giving issues)

http://video.megarotic.com/?v=X3VTEATM (original link)

Why?

Well, most importantly, it was believably real. Decent quality (security cams are pretty poor quality, but offer great views), good length, good sex (despite the dude’s blinding white tan lines). You felt like you were peeping along with Tom who was peekin out his window. I’m not sure I understand his point of zooming in on the crap in the yard tho….meh, oh well.

The other entries were all great too! Panthera‘s parking lot cam was decent, although that kid needs a few lessons in sex. My favorite part was the truck that stopped to watch his white lil ass bang his gf. Jobthingy‘s entry was hot sex, albeit staged (by at least part of the couple, even if the female didn’t know she was being filmed). Some more parking garage antics occured, sadly cut short. A romp in the woods was filmed but the plausibility seemed iffy….the forest is a noisy place, all leaves and crackly branches underfoot….I find it hard to believe that couple didn’t know they were being filmed, ya know? Elevator sex was HOT, but short and grainy. We had to make the line in the sand somewhere, ya know?

Hey, for such an expensive toy, we can be picky about our porno :P

Thanks to all who entered, it was great fun :)

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Sep 25, 2008

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HNT #14: Something Old, New, Borrowed and Blue

No, this has nothing to do with getting married, geesh, don’t freak out!

Something Old:

You have until midnight, this Friday, to submit your links to win a Free We-Vibe! Get to it!!! Wait, that sounded wrong…the We-Vibe isn’t old, the reminder is….hehe!

Something New:

{Your Ad Here}

Apparently, it’s good to take advantage of the expanse of my tits. Garbonzo was shocked when I agreed to celebrate his 100th post with the photo that someone else wished I would have taken instead of another ole fiction post. So I got out my BE eyeshadows and painted shimmery messages for both Garbonzo and Shay at The S Spot, for her photo contest.

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G had 2 to pick from, this is the one not chosen….the 2nd is for The S Spot contest!

Something Borrowed:

I’m pointing you to a good cause today, so attention all you female bloggers! You bare your breasts for HNT (sometimes) and some of you bare them for Tits for Troops, so what better cause than the Boobie-thon 2008?!? I’ll be submitting, of course, but I’ve also volunteered to work a few shifts of photo-editing the boobs that come pouring in, making sure they’re web ready. The Boobie-thon kicks off Breast Cancer Awareness month.

Something Blue(ish): HNT!

Remember the red bra pics? Someone suggested I do it in different colors, so this week is a few of the blue pics. The bra is a lacy blue and ‘periwinkle’ floral embroidery, it’s very pretty. Somewhere around here there’s panties to match. One cool thing about the color accent feature of the camera, is that even though it has one color picked out to ‘accent’, as you move the camera around, that accented color changes hues just a bit.

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Sep 20, 2008

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Sympathy for the Devil

You know what really sucks about internet friends? They could have something serious happen tomorrow and I’d likely never know. And vice versa. I know Deviant Little Devil was having some health problems recently, and suddenly…I’ve heard nothing from him in days which is unusual. I have quite a few people I consider to be good friends but their family doesn’t know of their online world…and so I’d never know what happened. It’s a sobering thought.

I don’t have much to say this week, I guess.

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One thing is a reminder to go look for links and enter in the contest to win a We-Vibe! It’s not that hard, and you have plenty of time to go do it. Now git!

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I’m not sure if you were just mezzed by the tits on Thursday or what ;) but I’ll mention again to please check out the jewelry page I have over there in the sidebar. I have a ton more stuff, I just need to figure out a way to list it all since the web site will be taken down really soon.

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I’m just thinking of you….really! So that I don’t subject my ranting and craziness on those expecting sexiness, and because I have an opinionated big mouth, I started a side blog. Every post will feature a lolcat :) I’ll most likely be posting every Monday and Thursday over there.

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Speaking of my rants…one thing I love about my stat counter is that I can see what Google search terms led people here. Sometimes they’re valid, like looking for a review on a toy. Other times it’s ridiculous sex crap, and sometimes…they came here and got a LOT more than they bargained for. Now, granted, I’m on the very last page so this person had to be desperate, but someone found me by searching for the Pasta N’ More. hehehehe imagine the shock they got!

That’s it. I’m boring this week. Next week I’ll review my dildo from Hans Hardwood Dildos, and I hope I’ll have a new fiction story to post.

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Sep 16, 2008

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So You Want a Free Sextoy??

Last week I was contacted by the lovely Nina of a PR Firm called Media Bitch – announcement was out that the We-Vibe is finally sold internationally! While VibeReview had already sent me one to review for them, I took this chance to share the love with my wonderful readers, and Nina sweetly agreed.

Yes, you heard that right. I’m giving away one We-Vibe to someone very lucky. Guys, girls, enter! It will be sent direct from the manufacturer, not me, so no worries on a perhaps unexplained return address ;)

Visit the We-Vibe website to learn even more about it.

What do you have to do? Oh gee, I can’t just give it away without any work on your part! ;)

One of the main “themes” to my blog is exhibitionism and also voyeurism.

I want you to link me directly to the best damn voyeuristic porn you can find me on YouPorn, RedTube, etc. Here’s my rules:

1. One entry per person

2. I don’t care if you’re a blogger or a reader!

3. You can only link to a site that does not require a membership, doesn’t have an assload of pop-ups, and one you can link directly to the video of your choosing. Doesn’t have to be the two sites I listed, I know there’s more places out there. (edit: found another one called tube8)

4. Voyeur theme – hidden cam, spying, that sort of thing. Needless to say something that looks staged isn’t going to win me over! Make it HOT, and graphic, make it something you think I’d masturbate to!

5. Check out the links posted before yours – if there’s an identical video being linked, the first person to name it will get credit. If you happen to notice before the contest is over that someone posted your link before you, you can then post another link.

I’ll pick my favorites – say…5? 6? And then my two secret-special guest judges and I will pick a winner from those. You have until Friday, September 26th at midnight EST to comment here with your link! You’ll need to provide a valid email address in the comment form – when you fill it out in the right spot there in the form, it doesn’t publish it to the blog post, I’m the only one who will see it. I’ll inform the winner and get their contact info off to Nina!

If you have any questions at all that you think I didn’t cover in my review, email me and ask!

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