The Rabbit Vibrator: An Essay (Or Buying Guide)
The Rabbit Vibrator. Were it not for Sex and The City1, would this type of sex toy ever have gained the popularity that it has? Probably. Why? Because we are lured into the promised...
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Ask Lilly: “My sex toy stinks – what should I do?”
A few weeks ago I got this question in my Formspring inbox and only now got around to answering it. All I know is what the person asked me, which was: My vibrator has...
Ask Lilly: Holiday Sex Toy Gift Buying Guide
I get a good number of people who contact me for advice on buying a sex toy as a gift for their partner as a surprise. This really isn’t an easy feat unless you...
Ask Lilly: How to Buy Sex Toys Online
Recently I had someone ask how a certain sex toy retailer shipped their toys to me; if it was safe, would her roommates know what was in the box, etc. Purchasing sex toys is...
Yes, Jelly Sex Toys can be Dangerous
Author’s Note: Yes this is an older post, but I update it with new information when I can. The information contained here is only the start and if you are curious, if you have...
Ask Lilly: How do I know if a sex toy has phthalates in it?
Another Formspring question here! When looking for a new toy how do you know if it does or does not have pthalates? asked by mydnitebyte First, a definition from Wikipedia: Phthalates, or phthalate esters,...
Are vibrators dangerous?
Given that my blog address and title both contain the word “dangerous” I get hits from google searches on sexual things being dangerous (or not). Since I talk about vibrators and blow jobs a...
Ask Lilly: How to Choose Your First Dildo (Updated!)
If you’re buying your first dildo, you’re probably unsure where to even begin. Look at any given sex toy retailer site that offers a half-decent selection and you are bound to be overwhelmed by...
