Category: Thoughts & Opinions

What is Sex-Positive?

What is Sex-Positive?

Here’s two misconceptions that I’m going to clear up straight off the bat. 1. That just because I create & run something, doesn’t mean I’m a dictator. e[lust] is as much yours as it...

Not a typical OkCupid message

Not a typical OkCupid message

I’m not on OkCupid these days looking for a hook-up or a date – but more for friends. So when I put in who I’m looking for, I selected “everyone”. So on my homescreen...

Ethics in Blogging

Ethics in Blogging

There are a lot of ways that bloggers can be unethical. Mind you, ethics don’t always equal human kindness/respect for others. You can be a snarky, grumpy shit-stirrer but still be ethical. You can...

Help End the Backlog

Help End the Backlog

Warning: This post may be triggering to survivors of sexual assault My late father was a forensic scientist. For a long time I had wanted to be just like daddy when I grew up...

My 2010

My 2010

Last year I did this survey and decided to do it again, just slightly modified here and there. 1. What did you do that you’d never done before? Met a longtime close friend in...