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Non-Monogamy and Sex Toys – Safe Sharing Tips

Non-Monogamy and Sex Toys – Safe Sharing Tips

    Non-Monogamy encompasses a whole host of various situations: Swingers, couples in open relationships, people who identify as polyamorous or even just those who are not in committed relationships and are dating numerous...

The Carrot is Not a Dildo!

The Carrot is Not a Dildo!

As I trawl through my Tumblr dashboard, I tend to see a lot of cases of ignorance-via-innocence and household objects being repurposed as dildos. Today the object to catch my eye and trigger this...

A rant: Your crappy writing skills turn me off

A rant: Your crappy writing skills turn me off

Your written words are your clothes, your voice, your facial expressions and that by which we measure intelligence, personality and sometimes even attractiveness. I’m not a “grammar Nazi” and I’m not a college English professor. I’m just a reader who wants to read words that make sense when thrown together in sentences and paragraphs. I don’t expect perfection; I just expect simple readability.

A pile of Crystal Delights glass butt plugs sparkling in the sun - taken in the vendor room at MomentumCon 2012

Glass Sex Toys: A Primer (and Interview with Crystal Delights!)

There are two sex toy materials that seem to scare the uninitiated: Glass and wood. It is ironic considering that the material you should be the most scared of is the one 50% of customers purchase willingly and gleefully. But glass is strong, non-porous, is not made with chemicals and is compatible with every type of lube. What’s not to love?

Earth Day and Sex Toys: A Battery Primer

Everybody goes on and on about how “green” and environmentally superior rechargeable sex toys are, but I’d bet that you didn’t know this fact: Alkaline batteries can be safely disposed of with normal household...