Comments on: Does Size Matter?

By: doll

doll — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 14:16:54 +0000

I am happy to see a comment from a man that mentions vagina size as I have asked men about this many times with no real reply. I am always being told that mine is tight and I am glad to hear that one man at least is open to telling us that women come in many sizes too.

I am very happy with a seven inch dick that has a good diameter but don’t ever want to go bigger that that due to the painful cervix experiences and the loss of variety in stroke when the penis is too filling. But I also don’t want one smaller than 5inches as I get bored with the loss of interesting sensation that comes from a penis well centred in the vagina.

After having had quite a few ‘new experiences’ I am beginning to understand that choosy is good.

By: Bonny

Bonny — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 00:09:26 +0000

It definitely is about a lot more than just size. And sure it makes “a difference” but that doesn’t have to mean it “matters”.
I guess it’s also a little about how one views mattering. It’ll always be a new experience, no matter the size. :)

By: Janie

Janie — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 20:01:31 +0000

I have the same problem as you and Britni with doggy style – bodies obviously don’t work that way as easily!

xoxox

By: Oversexed Librarian

Oversexed Librarian — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:08:10 +0000

Here’s one man’s perspective: Great sex depends on physical AND behavioral compatibility. I’ve found that vaginal dimensions are equally important. Some ladies are small and tight…sometimes too tight, sometimes too small. Also, some vaginas are deeper than others. I think that playmates have to be compatible in size and temperament to achieve truly great sex. Size DOES matter, but so does mutual physical compatibility.

By: Vixen

Vixen — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 16:21:14 +0000

I used to be in the ‘size doesn’t matter, it’s what you do with it’ bandcamp. And not that I don’t think that might be true for many men. I did come to realize in the last few years, that it certainly CAN matter.

And yes, there is such a thing as ‘too big’. And it can really limit sexual positions.

Loved this post Lilly!

By: Britni TheVadgeWig

Britni TheVadgeWig — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 11:08:14 +0000

Amen. And I often have the same problem as you in doggy style, yet don’t have that problem when being fucked from behind while laying flat on my stomach or while standing up. I’m not quite sure why, though.

~ Minute changes in angle change the depth, and change the angle at which the penis hits your cervix. Tiny changes make a big different! Also the doggy style position allows him one of the best positions to gain speed and vigor of thrust.
{Lilly}

By: DEEPURRPELL

DEEPURRPELL — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 09:40:32 +0000

As a guy with a 6.25×5.25 inch penis its marvellous to see it completely swallowed up inside of a women -and whichever way. Feels a perfect natural fit with no discomfit rather than her having to struggle with it. There might or might not be more physical pleasure with a well/over endowed man but can there be the same intimacy when he is half outside rather than completly within?

~ I’m sure there can be. Intimacy goes beyond the penetration.
{Lilly}

By: Lilly

Lilly — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 00:00:20 +0000

The anonymous question-asker wanted to stay anonymous and responded to this post in my formspring box. I wanted to post it though:

“i asked you the size question and i appreciate your response. Im young (20) and society conditions us to think negatively of our bodies. thanks for the response on your blog”

We forget that guys get the unfair societal pressures, too. Guys – concern yourself less with what it all looks like, and focus instead on your sexual abilities and talents. A good lover means infinitely more than what they look like.