Lil makes visit to club and gets her “private” lapdance… Or visits the “restricted” area…

:)

Come visit soon!!!!

-Womens bodies are ‘made’ to be appreciated. That’s right, they were crafted for that very purpose, so he has a right to do so. Hell, it’s an obligation! It isn’t a matter of finding beauty where we may, or in the things that excite us and appeal to us. No, better that it be out of the admirer’s control completely.
-Men have been ‘trained’ to do this by women. Again, men are absolved of any responsibility in the equation. It’s the fault of those tempting women who have forced us to be this way. They were ‘made’ to tempt us, then they ‘trained’ us to want to gawk at them, so men are ‘blameless’.
-You are equally complicit specifically, and Virgil will be happy to tell you why, because he’s been keeping a list and checking it twice of everything you did that conforms to his stereotypes.
-You need to express opinions less and post pictures for his gratification more.
-He thinks this really happened, despite the disclaimer, so he thinks you should have ‘learned’ from the experience what it’s like to be a man helplessly drawn in like a moth to the flame.

What Virgil doesn’t seem to get is that when women fantasize about exhibitionism, they rarely are picturing beer-bellied greasy bears as their primary audience (unless they REALLY want to imagine as degrading an experience as possible, I guess, and even then, it’s more about the illicit coarse repulsiveness than about wanting to show off for that kind of guy). Seedy seamy-skinned lounge lizards kicking back Coors aren’t quickening anyone’s pulses, Virgil. And if you gawk in hopes of illicit glimpses of something, take responsibility for it! It isn’t because someone ‘trained’ you to do that; It’s because you are hoping for a thrill, and in your case, Virgil, definitely an unintended one.

But that’s all gravy to the juicy turd-steak he served up with his comment about sticking to showing tits and lips. He’s a chauvinistic pig.

Virgil … you’ve been trained to perv? Wow where? I agree I don’t think you did actually read that post correctly? Most women like the appreciative gazing, hell I do sometimes but not from just any man, anywhere there are lines and personal preferences. You make it sound like women are pieces of meat. You also try and make it sound like you are speaking for all men … sheesh.Read properly before placing foot in mouth.

~ why thank you, new person!

Virgil – Did you even read the post before you commented? And I have to address this: “Don’t be so harsh towards men doing what they’ve been trained to do by women.” Um, excuse me? Women haven’t trained men to do anything. All people are responsible for their own actions. There is a big difference between gawking at someone and an appreciative look. When I’ve been to strip clubs, I have admired the women but I also treated them with respect and was kind to them. Your comment reminds me of people who say that women who dress like sluts (whatever that means) deserve or ask for whatever happens to them (rape, cat call, harassment, etc). Welcome to the 21st century where all people are responsible for their behavior!

~ I’m sure I would and oh yes I’d love to go with you!!! I think plenty of men I know would also laugh off the notion of women training men. For anything.

Kinda changed your tune when the girl directed it at you, didn’t you.?

Now you understand why men gawk at girls. Occasionally, one will offer up a peek at the goodies, not unlike your road trip of not so long ago.

It’s a simple fact – women’s bodies are made to be looked at and appreciated. And who was flashing 14th St in NYC not so long ago and hoping to be noticed?

Don’t be so harsh towards men doing what they’ve been trained to do by women.

More tits and lips please.

~ Um no. I think you missed my point entirely. I was not expressing distaste BECAUSE the men were staring at the girls. This has nothing at all to do with that. It was the men IN PARTICULAR that I minded. It was their attitude, their demeanor, their expressions and them in general. No I do not begrudge men as a whole staring at women as a whole. I was saying that I, personally, would not be able to feel sexy and sultry and whatnot being stared down and leered at by THOSE men.