Comments on: Power—give.take.

By: Grace

Grace — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 14:27:15 +0000

This is something we very occasionally bring into the bedroom. My husband is 6′ 5″, and his hands are very large. Once we were in a spooning position, and I was sort of bucking away from him, while his arms were wrapped around my neck. The choking was unintentional on his part, but I found the physical headrush, combined with endorphins from sex and the slightest bit of fear to be an almost overwhelming combination, and I had an earth-shaking orgasm. He is always afraid he will hurt me, so when I beg for this occasionally, I will squeeze his nipple hard at the same time. If he feels my hand slip off his nipple, he knows his grip needs to loosen. It’s a safety valve that works for us. And, yes, there is something so sensual and primal about having his big hand around my neck while he’s fucking me–knowing he could physically hurt me if he so chose, but he would always choose to bring me safety and pleasure.

~ That’s a really good system you have going there, although I can’t see R allowing the nipple pinch, lol.

By: Sweet Sexy Curvy

Sweet Sexy Curvy — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 23:37:07 +0000

YES

I think I may be able to handle this …

a little at first

maybe

YES

maybe

~ I think you could, sweetheart. I think you’re way kinkier than you let yourself believe ;)

By: J

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 22:00:10 +0000

Actually I was just speaking from someone who has a gf who prefers a tight collar as opposed to hands. As for the sex with L, I think said referenced gf would have a slight problem with that :P

~ haha! Another reason I prefer the hands – the pressure and constriction is more spread out to a larger area, the collar is usually only an inch wide. An equal amount of pressure will feel much great with a smaller surface area.

By: J

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 17:44:25 +0000

It’s even more fun with a leather collar and a thick 6ft nylon leash. With a hard enough tug you can create random choking moments or with a continued pull you can keep the choking going.

~ I have to say, that doesn’t appeal to me at all. The sexy part is his hand wrapped around my throat. The skin-to-skin, the measured control he can have. The closeness, the contact.

By: Kitten

Kitten — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 04:02:38 +0000

Mz. Berlin is the woman who inspired me to become more comfortable with pain. Check out her website at http://becomingmzberlin.com

She’s just so fucking beautiful. Ugh.. She kills me.

~ I know what you mean. Could stare at that face for hours!

By: Eclectic Enchantress

Eclectic Enchantress — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 01:48:11 +0000

And imagine him looking into your eyes as you float right on the edge…

Damn, I am supposed to be logging off for the evening but nooooooo… Actually, this does give me incentive to log off and…well…*wink*

~ yes yes and yes :)