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I have reviewed a lot of sex toys, and if you’re a loyal reader I think you know by now what it takes to get me off. Of course, getting off goes beyond toys and you know that aspect too. But what you don’t know…..is how. How I get off.

Since May is National Masturbation Month, there is no better time to talk about it. While every girl jerks off a little bit differently, today you get a sneak peak into the mechanics of my masturbation.

Sometimes I have a goal – to squirt, to come many times, to simply try out a new toy.

Sometimes I start from a bare simmer, and sometimes I wait until I’m a squirming mass of arousal – my cunt and clit already engorged and achy and slippery.

One thing that I really don’t ever do is finger-fuck my cunt. My arms are short and it’s just not comfortable for me. 50% of the time, when I masturbate, it is clitoral stimulation only. It was more frequent before my recent toys but now I have a few wonderful items that fill and stretch me or manipulate my g-spot in an irresistible way. And there are indeed times now where my orgasm is elusive until I hit the proverbial big red panic button that is my g-spot. When done correctly, it is like my g-spot and my clit are inextricably linked together – one fuels the other until the orgasm crashes and I really don’t know where it’s coming from.

Back up.

Clitoral-only orgasm. These are good, they are great even. These were my only method for some time  – back when I was using only found objects such as the battery-operated toothbrush. My fingers? Meh. I’ve orgasmed from merely fingers very few times in comparison. I have gotten to the edge many times, but usually not over. It is, indeed, frustrating.

My clit is picky. There is one spot – THE SPOT – and that is on my right-hand side of it. Vibrations are necessary -  but equally necessary is combining the vibration with pressure. Rubbing and pressing the vibrator hard against myself. Sometimes an up and down motion. My favorite and most delicious, achieved best with smaller vibes that have a pin-point of stimulation, is a tight circle around my clit. But the pressure, oh the pressure is needed. Because of my anatomy – my very full lips – my clitoris remains somewhat hidden. The pressure ensures pleasure is received not just at the tip but the shaft that is hidden inside my body. Also because of my anatomy, my tried-and-true methods include my fingers spreading my lips wide open and taut. My clitoris exposed as much as possible. In longer sessions lasting more than 30 minutes my pussy lips will actually get sore and a little bruised. It is generally a requirement for orgasm to do these things but sometimes, like at work, when I can’t do it I have managed. Likely though I find a way to at least provide the pin-pointed pressure which sends me crashing.

Yes that pressure is necessary and sometimes it is more than most people would think a woman could tolerate. Certainly all of my partners have to be egged and coaxed to be as firm as I need.

The mental aspect….I think it is safe to say that I am different. Sometimes I will be watching porn while I jerk off but that’s actually rare. Before? yes. Before I will watch or I will be reading blogs or looking at photos and I will let myself get to the point of wet cunt, engorged and aching clit, fully aroused. But during? Let us assume I am not in the unusual situation of being at work and let us assume I am alone or at home and perhaps alone. Once I have brought out the toys and I am working towards the end goal, I do not fantasize. In fact my mind does not settle anywhere. I might have images flitting through my imagination, words, shadows of thoughts……. but it is much like well…..a cacophony of images and sounds, a little bit like the Lost brainwashing video but not extreme and not as random. It’s just how my ADD-brain works. I am concentrating on the orgasm; I can’t also concentrate on my thoughts and direct them to fantasy.

 

 

I’m not done

We don’t end here

You want to know more….right?

I think the men would appreciate a verbal anatomy of a female orgasm….wouldn’t you, guys? A description of the sensations and well….I think you might appreciate the photos that are coming up.

  • Blueyeguy

    Oh yeah, take us on a trip with you! Welcome back my friends to the show that never ends!

  • txvisionary

    Yes, we definitely want to hear more. Where can I purchase my ticket for a ride on that journey?

  • Ronald10021

    I want to hear more and can’t get your wet cunt out of my mind….

  • Riff Dog

    Yes, count me amongst those who would love to hear the description.

    And I have taken careful notes on this post. Hoping I may someday put this information to good use. You know, in case you’d like to see if a man could do the same job.

    ~ Then you’d better memorize it – someday huh? We’ll see about that….

  • lea

    YEAH!
    I love to read other women’s experiences.. thanks for being so honest.
    I can totally relate to the one side thing.. and waiting.. and lots more from your post.
    Again.. thanks~

    ~ I do too, I wish more chick bloggers would follow my lead with this!

  • http://longingsend.wordpress.com mina

    thank goodness! I am the same way as you. Never cum by thrusting fingers into my cunt. I require clitoral stimulation. never directly on it, cuz that is too much, but just nearby, letting the vibrations do all the work. My mind is concentrated in the task at hand, otherwise, it will never happen.

    Your description is oh so sexy. That’s why I named you a “sexy blogger” on my latest post!

    ~ Ack! You did! :) I’ll have to do that meme soon!

  • L

    I enjoyed the picture that headed this post, and can’t wait for more.
    Being a guy, I masturbate far too much (well, that isn’t true… I hope!).

    x

  • T

    What a lovely post. Thank you for sharing. I’m celebrating Masturbation Month too!

  • Nik

    This could be my own description of my masturbation sessions.
    I’m in awe at the similarities, and as always, by your wonderful writing!