Comments on: Alter Egos, Super Heros and Secret Identities

By: rage

rage — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 02:15:49 +0000

Hello sweet temptress…

Very good post! There are only two people IRL that know of my blog. I think if anyone else found it, or if any family members or someone from work found it, I would have to close shop. On the other hand, I might just say “fuck it” and keep business as usual.

None of my family members blog because a) they don’t know what a blog is and b) they don’t even know how to turn on a computer.

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By: Tracer Bullet

Tracer Bullet — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 03:08:22 +0000

I wouldn’t think less of a family member if I discovered he or she had a sex blog (except my little sister because she’s a 32-year-old virgin. She is. Fuck you). I also wouldn’t read it, because that would be damned creepy.

By: Cunning_Linguist

Cunning_Linguist — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 12:13:43 +0000

I spoke my piece on the whole thing I think.

The only addition to the post I want to make is you limit your use of “squick” a bit more otherwise you owe us more dirty pictures,lol.

wtf is a squick?!!??!?

~ I’ll use my words as often as I like, dear boy. Also, clickety-click. Read and learn.

By: Rori

Rori — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 06:07:02 +0000

My family wouldn’t know it was me even if they did stumble onto my blog! I’m very careful to make sure of that. I will say that I have one exbf/best friend who reads it and sometimes references things (typically non-sex things) in real life. It is a little weird. :-p

By: TUG

TUG — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 04:39:01 +0000

You need to link this post for Lil Bit and send this picture to her for her mask collection.

By: Coy Pink

Coy Pink — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 03:18:22 +0000

I sincerely hope that my family never finds my site. My friends and acquaintances, well, it wouldn’t bother me too much to know that they were reading my blog. I have two fairly close friends that know about my alter ego. One, I think, reads everything. The other one, who’s known me since I was 10 and also knows my husband, she says she skips over a lot. :-) But it has helped our relationship because she now knows how much I trust her, enough to tell her about Coy Pink.

My husband’s co-workers – that’s another group that I’d like to keep our secret from. It wouldn’t bother ME to know that they were aware of our blog, but it would be upsetting if it changed their perception of him.

Thank goodness we sex bloggers have each other to cling to. I’d positively BURST if I had to keep my blog completely secret.

By: Rogue

Rogue — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 02:53:48 +0000

One of the reasons why I enjoy anonymity is to avoid complications, plus it allows me to write as I think and feel, unfettered. But some lovers have been told of the blog, and at least one friend (and lover) accidentally discovered it.

My choice is to be proud of the blog, to not be embarassed. I don’t flag-wave for it among my friends, but neither would I shirk from it. In many ways, writing has helped me be more courageous as a person when it comes to sexual topics, especially concerning how I came to terms with being a sexual person with HSV2. Because I feel healthy in my approach to writing, it enables me to be healthy in my attitude about said writing.

By: Nolens Volens

Nolens Volens — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 02:50:59 +0000

I have ZERO concern about any of my family reading my blog. I did let a few friends know. Their reactions have been positive. As for people actually finding me, I would just grin if they ever figured out who I am.

By: hubman

hubman — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 01:42:53 +0000

Oh boy… Talk about questions I’d rather not ponder! I suppose I’d be OK with *some* friends knowing about my blog and lifestyle, but not many. Family? No fucking way!

And I gotta chime in on your comment about the swingers who bemoaned the perceived lack of attractive people at parties. Because Veronica and I have grumbled about exactly that, but I don’t know who you’re referring to.

The way we see it, we have a fantastic sex life without swinging. If we’re going to fuck others, they *have* to be people we consider attractive. And we go to parties in large part to find such people. So if we don’t see anyone to our liking, well, it’s not exactly a wasted evening, but it’s also not what we were hoping for. You get what I’m saying?

I agree, by the way- attractiveness is not just a physical trait. Personality and attitude are very important as well. We’re not *that* shallow! lol…