Dec 31, 2008

HNT End of the year

So no new HNT this week, instead we’re supposed to pick our favorite one from the year. Luckily for me I’ve only been doing this half the year because I have issues with decision-making and choices sometimes, lol.

But first, my year. Wow, what a year. My first full year living “on my own”…..not with parents/mother, not in college. Living with my partner has been great and SO much less stressful! This year I decided to let my inner slut out to truly play, even before the blog. Not every encounter ended well. Ce la’ vie.

The biggest thing for the year is the blog. And in turn, the friendships I’ve made that never would have happened without the blog. I consider myself so lucky in the vast amount of wonderful people I’ve encountered, the large circle of new friends, and the healthy handful of new close friends. There are a few certain people that I speak to just about daily who mean the world to me and I cannot imagine life without them. I truly can’t…..take away just one from me and I would be heartbroken. Perish the thought, should I lose either of the few I’m closest to, I would be a mindless wandering lost soul.

I’ve never been a “social butterfly”. I’ve been the type to have a few close friends, an occasional friend or two and that would be it. On Twitter I have countless friends that I talk to daily/weekly on there. We all look for each other every day on there, chat within our shared circle of other users, and can count on support, hugs, help, laughter, and a break in the monotony if you need it. I have a dozen people that I will most likely talk to in email or IM daily or every other day. This is all really a serious “WTF” if you knew me a year ago. It’s hard to have friends when you consider yourself so very different from them…..when you find yourself censoring your conversations. Having something fun/cool/sexy happen but you can’t share it because they’re so……clozsed-minded, I guess. Perhaps it is an affliction of this state, this geographic area. Who knows.

Onto what half of you are truly here for ;)

Look, I’m not a “favorites” type of person. Favorite color? I have a few. It depends on the use of the color. Clothing, decoration, jewelry stone….Different! Favorite food? Just one? I’m sorry the best I could do is pick a favorite cuisine/region, and that would be Italian. Book, movie, tv show, song/band/artist….I just can’t. It’s as simple as that. Choose or die? Well if they hook me up to a lie detector while I spoke my “choice”, I’d be a dead lady for sure. So choose one, I’m told? *shakes head* yeahhhhh…..I can’t.

This one covers the B&W portion of photos, as well as my back side ;) Original post is here

This one was a spur-of-the-moment almost-accidental one. And definitely one of my faves. Original post is here

When I originally posted this particular one, it was in B&W, but I have been using a portion of the color version for my commenting avatar as I’m sure you all recognize. Original post is here.

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Dec 28, 2008

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Power

Microfantasy Monday……..”strap-ons”…

She’s a tiny little thing. Impossibly pure, smooth skin. B-cup tits with small pink nipples to cap them off. And I am her opposite…..where she is small, I am imposing. Taut skinny limbs to my lush plump expanse. Young perfection to my wizened curves that have been ridden hard.

And I have the power. It’s right between my legs. This big, imposing purple faux-cock that has her eyes wide as saucers and her breathing labored. I haven’t even impaled her yet…..I am just hovering above her. Waiting, watching. Testing that the restraints pulling her lithe legs up and apart are firmly in place.

I tease her with the tip. I shove a mere centimeter or three in her cunt lightning quick just to hear her squeak. She’s never taken a cock this big before, you see.

So yes, in so many ways, I have the power and I am nearly drunk with it.

And I plan to fuck her brains out.

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Dec 26, 2008

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Pleasurists #9

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #8? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #10? Submit it here before Sunday December 14th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

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On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick

Don Wands Candy Cane by Curvaceous Dee

Verdict: A gorgeous present to go in any bad girl’s stocking – or a good girl’s stocking, if you want to corrupt her in a most pleasant fashion.

Note: I couldn’t pass up picking this particularly festive toy! There are some gorgeous pictures with this review as well (as usual for Dee).

Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

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Dec 26, 2008

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Review: Japanese Bondage Rope

Japanese Bondage Rope | Sex Toys | More BDSM Items

Essentially, sextoy.com offers 2 different types of bondage rope. The Japanese Silk Love Rope, which has a shiny silky look and feel to it, and this rope which is cotton. I have found that the silky texture of the previous rope can make it a bit difficult on a beginner to tie a secure knot. Cotton offers better texture/friction for keeping knots secure and in place, without being scratchy like some hemp rope. Many people into rope bondage -like- the rough texture of hemp rope…..as someone who admittedly is ultra sensitive to texture and such, I find that hemp rope drives me to distraction. Too scratchy! Cotton solves that problem.

This rope is also thicker than the “standard” 6mm used by more experienced folks – it will require fewer passes for a comfortable and safe restraint, but the knots will be bulkier.

Top: Japanese Silk Love Rope, 16 ft length
Bottom: Japanese Bondage Rope, 32 ft length

This rope comes in a nice long length of 32 feet, which means you can do things such as a chest harness or other more intricate body ties. 16 feet is generally good for simple wrist or ankle restraints, or as an accent color / final pass on the more intricate bondage ties.

Better Bondage Rope Storage: I bet most of you are looking at the photo above and thinking….that doesn’t look like 32 feet! And why is it braided? When I was trawling wonderhowto.com’s ‘sex education’ section of videos looking for instructional videos on various restraints, I happened upon a video about some basics of rope bondage, which included rope storage – so I went hunting on YouTube for a specific how-to video just on the rope storage method. There is a special, easy way to “braid” it for storage. Much easier to transport/store a thick, stout braided hank of rope than a coiled mess which will likely tangle up. Once you watch the video and try it a few times, the technique goes very quickly even on 32 ft lengths. Better, undoing it from this is ridiculously easy – just pull and it comes apart! This method doesn’t put kink or curl in the ropes I’ve done it on, either.

Link: No Tangle Rope Storage

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Dec 24, 2008

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Merry Half-Nekkid Christmas!

Technically this is my HNT, but there’s a theme and I’m not exactly following it so I’m not being official about it all. The theme was to give “Christmas wishes” to 3 HNT bloggers but…..I feel that it’s a game of cliques and circles, and some might feel left out. As it is, my presence in HNT is likely not appreciated by a few key “players”.

Just about everyone I know in blogland/twitter has one major emotional hurdle right now. Well, you could say, who doesn’t? Some of my wishes for my good friends, I shouldn’t speak outloud in “public”. I hope to find time today to personally email all that I care for and tell them privately my wish for them.

I’ll be heading for “home” this afternoon…..it’s weird to some that I call it home still, for I no longer live with my mom. But it’s where I grew up and spent my first 30 years for the most part. I remember that everytime we went to my grandparents, my mom would always say we were “going home”. So on the road this afternoon, Christmas Eve with mom, gifting and installing her much hemmed-and-hawed-over new PC, Christmas Day dinner with my partner’s parents, and then heading back here that evening. Dinner and festivities with my cousins and their demonspawen, errrr I mean children, on Saturday.

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!

What’s behind that tree from last week? hmmm, perhaps a half naked girl?