Nov 022008
 
There is nothing like this. It’s that simple. The Njoy Pure Wand is, quite simply, the best sex toy for g-spot (or prostate) stimulation.

 

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The Njoy Pure Wand

24 ounces of pure solid (316, for the nerds) medical-grade stainless steel doesn’t *sound* sexy, but once you touch it and hold it, you’ll know. It is shiny in a mirror-finish; this material is hypoallergenic, easily cleaned or sterilized and won’t ever corrode or degrade. It ain’t goin anywhere, that’s for sure. I know it’s pricey at first glance for something that doesn’t even vibrate but….if you purchase -any- G-spot toy it should be this one.The ball for G-spot is 1.5″ and because one ball is bigger than the other, the G-spot side is heavier. You’ll see why this matters soon. It is obviously compatible with all lubes but the women most likely will not need any, or more than a drop.

This toy isn’t just for women – the other end is smaller for prostate stimulation, 1″ wide.

It took me hours after receiving this before I actually used it as intended. Why? I couldn’t stop touching it. Fondling, even. Looking at it in utter awe. Because of ~%#@!% UPS, I had to go there to pick it up the other evening. Waited in a tiny guard shack with other people for over 30 minutes and I was just in general miserable but I knew it would be worth it. It had been really cold that day, and so even an hour after I left UPS the Pure Wand was still very cold. Which was very intriguing. Once inserted though it didn’t take long to warm up.

If you measure “as the crow flies”, it is 8″ long. But measure along the curve from ball to ball and it is 10″. More than enough to get the job done.

This toy ….. I just can’t say enough about it. It is a toy that, at first, will be the companion on slower sessions. You need time to explore it and there is a learning curve simply because you’ve never experienced anything like it. Unless of course you’re already an expert at finding your G-spot (I am not, on my own). When I first inserted it, I just slipped the large ball past my opening and I let it slide on its own. Gravity took it slowly down deeper into me until the arch was resting on my slit. With the end you use as a handle, pointing up at you like a hard cock would, it is much easier to use than a straighter dildo. Especially for women who have short arms, like me.

Earlier this evening I started this post. Then I went to play with the toy some more (why? Because I read other reviews elsewhere about all these women squirting for the first time with it and I wanted to try more. Also, writing about the toy made me horny and wet. No, I’m not kidding). I had an hour long session (at least an hour). I kept hitting my g-spot, something that wasn’t done by me very often before, but then my hand/thumb would start hurting. This fucker is heavy, for me, a girl with weak wrists and tender muscles (fibromyalgia). And my G-spot likes a LOT of pressure. Each time I would make delicious contact I nearly lost my breath. Each push/pull, each pumping stroke, each rock of the wand echoed the sounds of a very wet pussy. So I played with my Layaspot and the wand for awhile, building to a nice slooww orgasm (albeit clitoral only) and the G-spot stimulation felt great. I have heard that the G-spot is more swollen and “receptive” after a clitoral orgasm, so I laid there for a bit with the wand still in me, idly playing. Soon, playing in earnest. And then I brought out the Hitachi.

Despite the wand slipping a bit in my hands, I pulled straight up on the smaller ball, bringing the inside ball firmly up against my G-spot. And I held it there with all my strength, while Hitachi buzzed away. I kept alternating in short bursts of holding the wand firmly in place while I ground the Hitachi to my clit, and backing off on the Hitachi while feverishly fucking myself with the wand. The final frenzied build-up took a good minute or two…..this was truly a roller-coaster ride and the climb up to the top was better than most orgasms felt as I was coming. Yes, that good. When I felt orgasm approaching I pushed a bit, like I’ve read to do, and the orgasm was literally the strongest I’ve had on my own in a long LONG while. I curled into myself, holding my breath while my mouth gaped open in a silent scream. Between the strong orgasm and how hard I was pushing, I eventually pushed the damn thing out of me (not easy to do given the weight and large ball).  And it was different, in a good way. I managed to have a simultaneous orgasm from both my clit and my G-spot. The inundation of extreme pleasure didn’t stop until I let go of the toys. And then I pulled back my hand (I was under my comforter, in bed) to find that it was wet. I pulled back the comforter…and there’s a big wet spot on it. Bed, too.

 

I SQUIRTED!!!!!!!!! HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!!!!!!! That’s never happened before!

 

I used this toy in all manner of positions on my bed. On my back. On my side. On my stomach. You can pull upwards on it for constant firm pressure. You can push the outer ball away from you. You can….well…you can do just about anything with this, and you’ll hit your G-spot. Really if you buy any G-spot toy at all, it should be this one. I promise.

I think I’m in love, this toy is Pure heaven.

 

Updated after 5 years of reviewing sex toys: I still think its my Holy Grail sex toy. Nothing else, hands down, gives me better orgasms. More Pure Wand love to be found elsewhere on this blog. I could be happy with only owning two sex toys now – my We-Vibe Tango and my Njoy Pure Wand. And pretty much, those are the two I use 85% of the time.
  • sweetcopswife

    Good Lord, ive never seen anything like this in my life! I fricken thought your were holdin’ on to a suitcase handle or something!
    :)

    ~ I know, I looked at it funny too for a long while before deciding I wanted one to review. It’s a handle alright, but not to a suitcase! ;)

  • http://www.debaucheddomesticdiva.blogspot.com Diva

    My absolute favorite combination is the Njoy Pure Wand and my Hitachi. I don’t think there is much better than that. Well…..unless we include living, breathing people in there.

    As much as I do love my Pure Wand I still want that Eleven. Especially after seeing and holding the one Tess has. You will be able to see one for yourself at the launch party when we raffle it.

    ~ Would you think less of me if I said that I think that combination might be better than a living breathing person? :D

  • Bad Bad Girl

    That’s awesome!! I have the Vengenza and I LOVE the weight of the metal, but I can see how it would be hard on your wrists and such. Bring it with you to the city. (wink)

    ~ Oh I’ll definitely bring it….hoping that my bag won’t go through a scanner device…hehe

  • http://seductionofinfidelity.blogspot.com/ ms.inconspicuous

    Oh how I covet, covet, covet. I’m not a girl who has ever squirted either… I wonder….

    ~ There’s a learning curve – if you’ve never, it might take a little time. I’m sure it took me much longer than half of the women who own it. I thought for SURE I’d never be able to squirt. It takes a lot of work for me to orgasm, especially G-spot. This toy is surely a gift from the gods.

  • Phaedra Fallen

    The only thing I can really think to say after reading this is: Omg. I want one. Now.

    X has gotten me to squirt twice, and every so often he makes a gallant effort attempting to do it again. Having a toy like this would be fun to play with in front of him if it could get me to squirt….. ::goes off to see if she has enough money to get one::

    ~ I hope you can scrounge up the money, it’s soooo worth it!!

  • Cheating Wife

    I have squirted, but only once….it is quite the experience, no? I am so thrilled it happened to you…truly unique and amazing.

    ;-)

    CW

    ~ Oh yeah, days later and I’m still giddy about it!

  • Hubman

    Good for you, learning how to squirt!

    Great post- part erotica part toy review all in one!

    If you ever go for the Eleven and need that helping hand… ;-)

    ~ Gonna have to be a strong man to help me out there….I think you might fit the bill…perhaps

  • http://theworldisaplayground.blogspot.com/ colly900

    That is quite the piece of artwork that you have in your hand. I wouldn’t even know what to do with it.

    Other than my complete admiration of a hunk of metal that could possibly be mistaken for some kind of medieval weapon, congratulations on your squirting adventure.

    ~ I didn’t know at first either. As for weapon? Uh yeah….you can orgasm with it AND kill intruders!

  • Panthera Pardus

    this thing intrigues me and terrifies me at the same time…

    ~ You won’t be terrified once you use it, I promise!

  • http://tiwiwtw.wordpress.com rage

    This combined with the Hitachi? I think I am in love!

    I bookmarked the toy so I can take a closer look…I think I have something new to put on my wish list. :)

    ~ oh I already know I’m in love with it! its kinda bad though for the toy reviewer in me that I think this is the Holy Grail. I don’t think I can get anything better.

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  • http://muddledbefuddled.blogspot.com Gotta Change It

    Wow! I think I’m going to need one of these. Better tell my husband to start saving!

    ~ I don’t think he’ll complain about it ;)

  • Subtle Release

    I think there should be a video for us to “review the reviewer” … ahem :)

    ~ If there is one, it’s private. Only a select few can view it…I’ll see what I can do about getting you the private membership ;)

  • http://wilfuldamage.blogspot.com/ Ell

    Fabulous review, Njoy are really the bee’s knees when it comes to pleasure toys. The Eleven is weighty but wonderful too – I lift weight in the gym – it pays off!

  • hub

    I bought my wife one of these as a wedding present along with one of there pure plugs. We have had success with the plug but not with the wand, she really enjoys g spot stimulation but we have had very little luck with this toy, we plan to experiment with it more, any tips?

  • http://www.thekinkchronicles.blogspot.com/ Sheba

    It takes a lot of work to make my cum, g-spot, clitoral or otherwise. I am so tempted to order this. If I do, I’ll have to let you know how it goes.

    ~ well you know my opinion, order it!

  • http://vanillaimpaired.com vanimp

    Oh my, after reading this… I wants one! It is now added to the ever increasing list. I am so curious about the squirting thing and this may just be the answer … damn good review hun! Thank you :D x